DS is in year 4. The class is two thirds girls so not many boy friends to choose from. He is on the perimeter of a group of 6 boys including him.. they are very good at sport and he isn't.
Through this school year he has been upset several times as there have been group sleepovers and parties with these boys and he is never invited. Occasionally they've teased him about this.
There have been three occasions in the year when ive spoken to his class teacher as he has felt picked on by a couple of boys on the group....eg told by one numerous times that he is bad at spory and should never have been born or repeatedly tripped up during football. She has spoken to the boys and it stops for a while.
However a couple of weeks ago she spoke to boy a. He admitted the behaviour again and said he'd stop. But immediately after had a go at Ds for always getting him into trouble. He then according to Ds told all the others this over several days.
My DS was told by teacher that Earlier in the week boy a's mum spoke to the teacher to say her son had been crying about my DS getting her son into trouble. Teacher spoke to both boys and apparently boy a admitted without his mum present that it wasnt true and apologised to my DS.
As far as i know boy a mum doesn't hsve a clue what her son has been up to and still thinks its been my son. He is already on the outside and i feel this could make it worse so i think the teacher should tell her the whole story....especially as they are gping into a new school year and its likley to start again
I am sure teacher likes my son and believes him, but i need advice on what to say to her. Thank you..