My dd is almost 6 and is in yr 1. Last year she had a 'best friend' who kept deciding she no loger wanted to be her friend, and another friend who seems to be involved in this. This seems to be the case again. They exclude dd from playing, but then days later want to be her friend again. dd is very confused and upset. She doesn't do all this 'i'm not your friend' stuff and is quite easy going. I have told her to ignore them, let them get on with it etc etc but what else can I do? I have sent a text to the Mum of one of them as i kind of know her. it was polite, just explaining whats going on and asking her to talk to her dd. i think one of the problems is that her dd watches lots of disney pre teen nonsense that is about girls being quite bitchy in their friendships. Heelllpppp!