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I'm so sick of being told giving up breast feeding will magically solve our sleep problems!!

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arolf · 07/03/2010 11:03

DS is 5 mo, shit sleeper, EBF, although we're starting to wean with BLW which he loves when in the mood!
we'd got him sleeping 4 or 5 hrs, then 2 then another 2 at nights after 3 months of virtually no sleep (he'd manage 2 hrs max then want to feed all night long. it was tiring...)
however, for the past couple of weeks he's been waking every 45 minutes during the night, ravenously hungry, screaming if we try to put off feeding for more than a minute (i.e. whilst I'm getting my boob out - not fast enough in his opinion, so cue frantic yelling). I'm bloody exhausted, DP is sleeping in another room, and still getting woken up, we're both a bit frazzled. DS is not himself at all, so we reckon he's teething/growth spurting/something like that.

but this week, no less than 4 people have told me he'll only sleep when I give up bfing and switch to formula. because it worked for them/their friend. delving a little deeper, it turned out that all nstories the baby slept through within a month of solids being introduced, no matter when ffing was started. so to me, it sounds like solids and not formula may be the answer.

could some folk with more knowledge back me up on this? I don't want to move to ffing after getting bfing well established, and DS is thriving on it, but tbh if it would help with sleep, I'd be very tempted to consider it for 1 night...

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arolf · 09/03/2010 08:50

it's ok gyp5y, didn't think you were smug!

he slept ok on sunday night, only up twice between 10 and 7, so think he was just feeling rough last week!

thanks for all the stories of babies not sleeping no matter their diet, gives me so much hope

oh, and got told yesterday that bigger babies sleep better - yeah right!! love the myths that abound

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AreAnyNamesAvailable · 09/03/2010 09:46

The reality is, you don't know that your child would not sleep better on formula. However you choose to breastfeed because you know it is best for your baby. I have to say that in my group of friends, formula fed babies slept longer and slept through earlier, but this may have been because their babies were going to be better sleepers anyway. Just agree with people who say it might help, then point out that you would rather breastfeed and get up in the night than try FFing and that your DS will sleep when he is ready.

If it was getting to you that much, you might make the choice to try formula. You are obviously doing ok so ignore then.

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