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20-week-old crying inconsolably after breastfeeding

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Moomma · 30/01/2010 19:05

My DS has always been a very enthusiastic feeder even though slow to put on weight (as I've mentioned here before!). In the past week, he's started feeding for a very short time - five or ten minutes max per side - and getting very frustrated with me when he runs out of milk. I can't get him to stay on for another let-down, and he feeds mostly until there is absolutely nothing left on either side (I swap him back to side one, then side two, though often there isn't a huge amount more available and it makes him even crankier). He will then cry hysterically until someone else takes him (for preference) or I manage to distract him and wind him. He has been suffering from wind a bit, but not so much that it should be stopping him from feeding properly. Still 3 or so dirty nappies every 24 hours, and wet ones in between, so he does seem to be getting milk out of it, but I am shellshocked by two things: how quickly he's feeding when he used to take a minimum of 45 minutes (more often over an hour) and how bloody angry he is getting! He gets very tired then and ends up needing a nap after playing for forty minutes or an hour. He's used to having a long feed, an hour or so of play and then a sleep during the day, and either he needs a new schedule or he needs to learn that he's got to pace himself for a longer play!

Not sure what to do with him, or if he's getting enough milk and I'm very tempted to start supplementing him again, as he does just seem so cross when the milk runs out. He is small and trying to catch up, I think, but when feeding is such a trauma for both of us, I'm reluctant to try feeding him more frequently than he's looking for it (about every 2-2.5 hours during the day, every 4 hours at night). If this is normal, I can see why people end up weaning before six months. Reassurance, anyone?

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BosomsByTheSea · 30/01/2010 19:17

The milk doesn't run out. It is stored in the breast, yes, but us also produced as the baby feeds.

Could DS be in pain from teething? My DTs are19 weeks and have got fussy around feeding.

We're using bonjela teething gel, calpol and Nelson's Teetha granules.

Moomma · 30/01/2010 19:56

The reason I say it runs out is that when I try to express a little - even a drop - nothing comes out, and he will go back on and suck for twenty seconds or so, but gets more distressed when nothing happens instantly! I know that if he would feed more slowly (as he does at night, mainly) he could feed for longer and get more. But he doesn't.

He has been drooling and chewing his fingers for the past few weeks, and has two little bumps in his bottom jaw, but no sign of them getting any further along. I thought he wasn't actively teething, but I might try the bonjela even so.

I can't imagine having it x2!

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BosomsByTheSea · 30/01/2010 20:58

Sounds like he's getting antsy waiting for a letdown. Also sounds like teeth - I think it makes them more grumpy generally - well it certainly has with my two.

How much you can express isn't a sign of how much milk is there for the baby - I can only express about 100 mls per night, even from both sides, yet my twins are putting on weight at the right rate so I must be making much more than that!! I do think it is probably teething - especially with the chewing and drooling. The Bonjela seems to be more of a distraction than anything else, to be honest - the Calpol seems much more effective, but, of course, I only use that occasionally when they really seem to be suffering.

Do hope your DS feels more chirpy soon. As long as there arte plenty of wet/dirty nappies and the weight keeps going on, try not to worry too much about the quick feeds. They do get more efficient at this age. Mine have short feeds all day then longer ones at night (when there are less distractions!)

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