Everyone was so nice about helping me through DDs growth spurt (now finished although the demon colic has come back with a vengance so I'm still not getting much more sleep) I hope that someone can help me with expressing.
I want to start expressing some milk for the odd feed but am really not sure when is the most appropriate time to do it. I've seen people talk about doing it at the same time as feeding, but do you mean literally the same time, when the child is on the other breast? If you do...how? I don't think I have enough hands! As I mentioned, DD is quite colicky and needs a lot of winding and general fussing around after feeding, the earliest I would get to expressing afterwards would probably be at least an hour. I've never had a problem with supply (the opposite if anything!) but should I get all I can from both breasts at that point, or just one?
Also I if I wore those nipple shields, could I gather milk using those while she's feeding (I leak all over the place anyway) and put that in the same bottle as milk already stored in the fridge (assuming of course I actually get the hang of expressing) or does it need to be kept seperate? Is it possible to use them at every feed, keep topping up a bottle in the fridge with the resultant milk over the course of the day, and then freeze that bottle at the end of the day?
I'm sorry if these questions are really obvious - my HV is absolutely lovely for BF but said she didn't know anything about expressing really so hoping someone can help a bit, I'm clueless!