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Incessant feeding in 5 week old BF baby - DH wants to try formula

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lucky1979 · 30/11/2009 18:22

Since yesterday DD has been almost consistently feeding, or demanding to be fed. She normally sleeps for 2-3 hour stretches throughout the day and quite well at night but since yesterday she is practically hysterical if she goes for more than 1 hour without being fed, and has barely slept. The feeds go on for much longer than normal as well. DH can't settle her either, she usually responds really well to him but now seems to only be remotely content when she's with me.

My Mum thinks no baby needs feeding that much, and she's "playing me up" and DH thinks that we should try giving her formula so that I can get some sleep. I've heard of cluster feeding, but thought that was something that happened in the evenings, not for a 24 hour period. I can't bear to not feed her as she screams almost hysterically but would prefer not to give her formula either so don't know what to do.

She was 6 pounds 1 oz when she was born, and had gone up to 7 pounds last wednesday when she was weighed so has been putting on weight well so far.

Does anyone have any experience of this or advice? (Or just some reassurance - am exhausted and feeling like an incompetent mother right now)

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lucky1979 · 01/12/2009 19:41

Excuse typos, one handed typing while feeding!

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Murtette · 01/12/2009 19:52

Well done, Lucky!

By the way, be prepared for a LOT of leakage over the next day or so when your DD drops back to her normal feeding levels. I can't believe how many pads I've got through today after our marathon weekend feeding session.

RorysRacingReindeer · 01/12/2009 19:52

glad to hear all is feeling a bit better today and that DH has been an absolute star. It does get easier and then as others have said they throw you a wobbler to keep you on your toes.

Good luck with continuing the bf ing.

BAUBLEnod · 02/12/2009 09:02

Fantastic well done Lucky - you've grown your baby all on your own

So glad that your DH and mum are being helpful and supportive - it makes the world of difference. I struggled with bf for the first 7 weeks or so and DH was amazing - I couldn't have done it without him. Your DH sounds really lovely.

Enjoy your gorgeous little one - mine is an enormous 7 month old now, can't believe how quickly they grow!

Builde · 02/12/2009 09:47

BFing would be an awful lot easier if there weren't MILs, old ladies and others who are determined to get people to stop! Then all new mums could just go with the flow.

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