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Starting was the easy part...How do I STOP breastfeeding??

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littlelamb · 24/05/2009 16:26

Well ds is nearly a year old and I think I am ready to stop bf. I'm proud to have got to a year, and I want to be able to start losing weight now, as I have a good few stone to lose and I know from experience that weight will not shift until I've stopped feeding. I fed dd for 10 months and I went cold turkey, just completely stopped. She was at nursery and was having bottles of expressed milk, so it wasn't too difficult for her but I ended up in quite a bit of pain and had to force myself not to express to ease it. Ds has been with mil since last night and has only just come back. I sent him with bottles of formula, which he had no problem taking. But my boobs are about to explode Surely if I express, it will just mean even more milk is produced. Is mastitis inevitable?? Should I get some antibiotics just in case? Or should I try and cut down on bfs over a couple of weeks and subsitute with milk from a cup?

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TheProvincialLady · 24/05/2009 16:32

I would cut down gradually as mastitis is hideous even if you have ABs. It feels like flu and will send you to bed for a few days....better to let your body adjust gradually IMO.

themoon66 · 24/05/2009 16:57

Cut down slowly and your milk production will naturally slow down. I found that worked just fine both times. It took me a long time to drop that last thing at night feed though.

littlelamb · 24/05/2009 19:33

Thanks. He's still up (mil let him stay up until 9 so his routine had been a bit muddled up) and having a cup of milk quite happily. Its funny, he does favour one side and that is the side that is agony. I can see myself wandering around with one side significantly bigger than the other for a few days I'll try cuttign the feeds down gradually.

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MrsJamin · 24/05/2009 19:54

I wanted to stop at 1 year and a few weeks before, DS went on a nursing strike as he was unwell. I took my opportunity and so went from 4 feeds a day to none. I only expressed a little if I was feeling engorged (to avoid mastitis), and after a week I wasn't producing anything. Good luck and well done to getting to a year!

littlelamb · 24/05/2009 20:08

Well he's just gone to bed. Turned nose up at boobs completely Has had a bottle and settled straight to sleep. I wonder if maybe it was just too full?? They are quite humungous anyway, he gave about 2 disinterested sucks and then gave up. I'm going to try and express some off and when he wakes up try again so they'll be less full. I didn't expect him to refuse to feed

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littlelamb · 24/05/2009 20:09

Oh lordy
Do you think it may be the alcohol that could be the problem?? Was rather a large one last night

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JustKeepSwimming · 24/05/2009 20:12

I dropped feeds gradually and was still in agony for a week after the last one

was recommended Sudafed - as a decongestant
and as much ibubrofen as i wanted! plus thee odd glass of wine helped too

i could hardy get dressed/undressed my boobs were so swollen and tender. i did hand express/lie in hot baths/put hot flannels on them/etc. time helped the most.

good luck!
(he may not refuse in the middle of the night, does he get up in the night?)

littlelamb · 24/05/2009 20:21

err, yes he does several times. Interestingly enough though when he's being babysat he hardly ever wakes up. I think he wakes up a lot as he expects milk every time. I remember it being agony giving up feeding dd. I did it the week we moved into our flat and it was a state so I drafted in a few friends and we spent all week decorating. My norks were so big I kept opening doors into them and my word did they hurt.

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JustKeepSwimming · 24/05/2009 21:23

well lete him feed if he wants the next few nights to ease tings, then you can decide what to do from there....

littlelamb · 25/05/2009 10:26

Well he fed from me in the night but has turned his nose up at boob this morning. After about an hour of offering it I gave in and he took a bottle no problems. I don't know why I feel a bit sad. I suppose i should be happy that he does seem to be choosing to give up rather than me forcing it but still a bit I will keep offering him bfs today and see what happens

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MrsJamin · 25/05/2009 11:19

it's totally natural to feel a bit sad about it, it does feel like it changes your relationship but soon they can toddle over and give you a cuddle so you get other nice things in the future! Also be glad that it came to natural finish rather than you having to force it - I was so relieved how this went this way for me.

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