After a failed induction (lasting 4 days) i had an emergency c-section about 2.5 weeks ago. Baby fed for about half an hour whilst we were in recovery and seemed to feed well afterwards. However, he was in and out of special care due to high markers for infection and they found he had low blood sugar and advised me to supplement with formula-which I was not keen on but did do (in retrospect feel I was pressured in to this by the nurse).
Whilst in hospital I had lots of help getting the latch right etc, but one of the midwives spotted that baby did not swallow and it seemed I did not produce much milk-my supply has never really come in. I was advised to express every 3 hours to try and increase supply and to keep supplementing him with formula. I did the expressing every 3hours for a few days, but this started to play with my sanity so I stopped. I also produced very little milk expressing, even using hospital pump which I have borrowed to take home(between 5-10mls a time so it was very disheartening), and have been feeding him on the breast for as long as I can before topping up with formula. I've seen a BF counsellor a couple of times (she recommended the expressing every 3 hours). I do have PCOS and have been told that this can effect ability to BF (although only anecdotal evidence). He is happy to feed from me, looks for my breasts when hungry and seems to enjoy it.
I am figuring this limited BF followed by formula is the best I can do for my son and that at least he will get some benefit from my limited milk production and that I should give up on believing that I will ever be able to solely BF him, or that I can increase my production to any more than about 10mls at a time.
Just wondering if anyone has any experience of anything similar to this or any wise words
thanks