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10mo won't take a bottle but isn't keen on breast either!!

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Essie3 · 15/04/2009 16:15

This is similar to another thread, I know, but the Battle of the Bottle continues here. I'll try to keep it brief.

Baby is 10 months exactly tomorrow. Has been exclusively bfed, and has always fed like a pro. He takes solids now - a lot!! - and eats really well: porridge breakfast with milk, savoury main and pudding (yoghurt or fruit) for lunch, weetabix with ebm for afternoon tea, often followed by yoghurt or fruit (depending on which he had for lunch) and then savoury main and pudding for supper.
He goes to nursery - but not at the moment - and has refused a bottle since November and will not take any ever no way. The compromise was the delicious weetabix ebm combo. He will take sips of water from a doidy cup but that's a recent thing and he doesn't take great amounts.
My concern now is that he's just not taking enough bmilk. I've been with him all the time the past 2 weeks, and he feeds first thing really well, but then after lunch isn't really interested. He used to have an afternoon feed too, 4ish when in nursery when I picked him up, but these last two weeks he's not very interested in that.
He has a good feed before bed though.
Daytimes has been starting to feed, mucking around, wriggling away, pulling up my top if I pull it down thinking he's done, two sucks, then giggling and escaping.

So, he's 10 months, not losing weight (but not gaining fast either but he's always been small and undersized) and not really bfing properly during the day. Should I be worried, and what should I do? Give up on daytime feeds unless he demands one? Is this a Very Bad Thing? It would be nice for me if he decides he doesn't want to bf like some babies do (rather than me having to call it a day and reject him ) but I wasn't really expecting it this early. And the bottle rejection means I'm a bit stuck really as there's no alternative - so if he rejects the breast, there's no bottle either!

I suppose I can see how he goes when he's back at nursery next week, because I find separation= demand feeding normally.

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Essie3 · 15/04/2009 16:16

Sorry, that was way too long! How dull am I?

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Essie3 · 15/04/2009 20:33

Bump - anyone?

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Academicmum · 15/04/2009 21:08

Hello Essie3. I was watching this thread because my position is similar only rather than my ds2 not wanting to feed in the daytime, I'm trying to drop those feeds, but he doesn't drink all that well from a cup (either sippy or doidy) - on a good day he'll drink around 3oz and more often just small sips here and there. In my case, ds2 is also allergic to dairy so his milk intake is quite important.

In your circumstances though I reackon your ds will be able to get enough milk from his solids if necessary e.g. a couple of yoghurts, the weetabix you've been giving him, some cheese. He needs to have (at least) 500-600 ml per day by 10 months and after a year at least 350 ml per day, these figures though include what is incorporated into his food in the form of dairy, which soon adds up. Have you tried just leaving a cup around for him to help himself to milk from? This seems to work to a limited extent with ds2.

SazzlesA · 15/04/2009 21:12

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