Hi I have'nt read the whole thread but just wanted to drop in and share my view based on my experiences.
arly on I decided I wanted to BF mainly due to everyone I knew having FF and a lot of people going on about how much easier it is and how you can get into better routine's blah de blah, so of course being 19 I took on their opinions as gospel.
By the time I was 30 weeks I had just settled into the idea never even thought twice about it, now looking back at that appointment with the MW I realise that their advice could've benefitted me so much.
At my 30 week check my MW asked me if I'd considered feeding options etc, my immediate answer was well I know nothing about BF and everyone I know FF so I'll stick with that it's safe territory, to which the MW replied that is fine we'll just leave it at that then.
When I think on that now I wish that I had atleast been offerred some information or advice about BF and what it involoved, obv it does'nt sound that difficult but to me it was not knowing that put me off.
So I would like to see MW offering general advice to first time mums, especially younger ones as it can be daunting there are so many things to think about with your first, I know there are leaflets etc but to me when that question was asked with the answer I gave it was clear I knew nothing else surely if a MW had said well I don't want to push it on you but here's sme information about BF and you can have a think about it and maybe have a little chat about it in terms of what it usually involves etc.
I would also like to see it prmoted more as I know here in Scotland there is an NHS advert but it has actually been on about once a week if your lucky for the last 2 years so whilst we are shown 'follow on' milk in abundance there is a seriouslack of promotion for BFing, as well as how it's portrayed in Soap's etc how many times have we heard the line 'oh I'm just glad to get my body back' or similair after about 2 weeks of feeding, this needs to change as for some people as sad as it may sound I guess TV does actually influence them lot and if you are hearing that you automatically think oh god must be bad.
And I genuinely believe that if I had known of this website I would have had a go at it as the lvel of support and advice on here is fantastic for those who need it somaybe a leaflet containing details of here would be useful as I think the ones for 'breastfeeding adivce' can come over as a bit scary where as here you can relax and genuinely talk through it.
Sorry for rambling