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Want to train as a bf supporter - am I being silly?

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CherryChoc · 19/02/2009 19:23

I have been inspired by posts on here and elsewhere - by being angry at the level of "support" most women seem to experience when they are experiencing difficulty with breastfeeding - to want to do something to help.

Is it completely ridiculous for me to want to train as a bf supporter? My DS is 4 and a half months and I haven't really had any big problems feeding him but I know that mainly my success is attributed to spending far too long on internet forums discussing breastfeeding and just knowing what to expect - and knowing there was someone I could call if I did need any help. I am quite young as well - I was 19 when I became pregnant, 20 now, but I look younger and everyone seemed surprised when I said I was planning to breastfeed. My DP and his family have not been very supportive of my decision, not because they are hostile towards it, just because they are not familiar with bf.

I would love to in particular support young mums who want to breastfeed - a friend of mine who was 18 when her baby was born wanted to but had problems in hospital and the midwives made her feel awful when she switched to formula, without even seeming to offer any helpful advice on how to persevere with bf. Her DS did get the small amount of colostrum she managed to express (I was so proud of her for insisting!)

So I was just wondering if anyone has trained as a bf supporter, and how much it costs, how much experience you have to have etc. We haven't got a lot of spare money at the moment but it's something I really want to do. Also, once you are trained, how does it work, and would I be able to take my DS with me as I don't think I can afford to do voluntary work if I would have to pay out for childcare.

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Wallace · 22/02/2009 19:23

I definitely will go for it

Tis funny though because I keep thinking all the comments about them being desperate for young peer supporters applies to me, then I have to reming myself that 30 isn't really that young

Maria2007 · 14/03/2009 18:23

Oops. Just discovered this thread one month later.

So what happened in the end, did you do it?

The reason I'm interested (and I did a search for peer supporter courses) is that I'm starting one now myself; my local MW (at the bf cafe which I visit once in a while) recommended I do it. It's organized by the council (in our area) & the Breastfeeding network. Am very happy to do this... would love to hear others' experiences?

peppapighastakenovermylife · 14/03/2009 18:30

Foxytocin - I so want to know who you are in real life lol - I am also ABM and intrigued if I know you.

Sorry - highjack there. You sound like you would be absolutely fantastic especially as you are a younger mum and sound lovely. DO IT DO IT DO IT

CherryChoc · 14/03/2009 18:31

Not yet - with the snow, and then I had a cold, baby had a cold, for 2-3 weeks we were stuck in and couldn't get along to the bf cafe. I wanted to go there and see if there was anything running locally I could get involved in first. Will prob go next week or the one after though as am feeling better now!

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kathryn2804 · 14/03/2009 22:28

I've been a peer supporter for nearly 3 years now, and I have to say, it's been one of the best things I've done in my life!!! The course was great, met some fantastic Mums who I am still friends with now, and I get such a high from helping someone over-come their problems and see then a few weeks later, feeding brilliantly and enjoying it!!

Most local areas a crying out for young Mums to train up. We've got 2 newly qualified Mums who are 19 and 21. They're going to be a great asset in normalising breastfeeding in this age group and showing that it is a fantastic thing to do, no matter how young you are!!

Anyone who is thinking about it, GO ON!!!!!!!!!!! Go and find about about it tomorrow (ok it's Sunday tomorrow!!)

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