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I met a doctor today...

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hunkermunker · 10/04/2005 15:20

Today, I took my one-year-old DS to the GP at hospital because he was hot again in the night. He has an ear infection, poor love, as well as teething what seems to be a forest of teeth at once.

However, that's not the point of this post.

The GP I saw there asked if he was eating and drinking - I told him I was still breastfeeding and he looked at me as if I'd grown another head there and then on the spot.

Then he said, "Why?! I think six months is quite enough."

To which I replied, very calmly, that the World Health Organisation's guidelines suggested breastfeeding until at least two. He looked amazed, shrugged and got on with examining DS.

Just before we left, he said that DS should be getting enough from solids and I really didn't need to keep breastfeeding him. So I said that a child's immune system didn't mature until they were about seven (laughingly said I didn't expect to still be feeding DS then), so breastfeeding a one-year-old was a good plan. Then he said, "But they do bite though" - as if I was happily letting DS munch on my nipples whenever he felt like it! I reassured him that DS didn't bite and that he enjoyed breastfeeding - I wasn't just doing it because I wanted to.

Should I have said more?! I'm SO shocked to have come face-to-face with this total ignorance! If I wasn't so confident that I was doing the right thing...it's not just support at the beginning of breastfeeding that needs addressing, obviously!

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tiktok · 14/04/2005 12:54

Eaney, there are loads of posts in the archives on this...there are indeed many benefits. Breastfeeding doesn't stop being a nutritious food and drink just because the calendar says so

piffle · 14/04/2005 12:55

I had that once and said "With all due respect
My son is glad that it's my choice and not yours Doctor XXX"

And when dd was the subject of the young doctors final exams MCRGP something or others practical exams. (she has a "rare" condition)]so she got seen by lots of trainee junior doctors as well as by the 3 examiner consultants, the 3 consultants, were all over 60 yrs, one Englishman, one Irishman and an Indian woman.
Dd got upset so I popped her on the boob (she was 15 mths) all 3 congratualted me and said, "their patient load could be halved if more mums fed that long."
I was flabbergasted! The junior doctors looked a mixture of horrified, petrified and astonished!!!

hunkermunker · 18/04/2005 00:24

Fantastic, Piffle!

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ghosty · 18/04/2005 02:09

H'munker ... on your behalf ... silly dr!
re. breastfeeding mums getting hospital food ... when DS was in Southampton General at 4 weeks for an operation I was told to go and get my own food ...because the hospital only provided food for the patients, not the parents ... We were shocked as DS didn't eat food yet obviously and I was his only source of nourishment so we thought I should have been fed by default!
DH had to go off and find dinner for me etc ... Breakfast was a nightmare as DH couldn't come in till after 9 and I would be starving. On the second morning an auxiliary nurse took pity on me and brought me a cup of tea and some toast "To keep your strength up dear" ...

My Doctor made me laugh when DD was about 8 months old and had developed an eczema type reaction to something. He said he thought she must be allergic to dairy and I should stop breastfeeding her and put her on soy formula. After looking at him for a moment with my mouth hanging open I said, "Um, She doesn't have any dairy yet .... I am breastfeeding her and I am not a cow!"
He was very embarrassed and apologised!

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