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breast feeding - losing confidence - reassurance please

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popsycal · 25/03/2005 17:38

DS2 is now three weeks and is breats feeding fine. I was determined to make it work this time round after several issues feeding ds1 which resulted in me stopping before I really wanted to.

Everything is working well - latching on fine, positioning is good. I let him feed whenever and for however long he likes which turns out to be most of the night! He does like to suck so some of the time spent on the breast isnt productive feeding but when he does feed, he feeds well. He had a touch of jaundice in his first week but that within about 4 days (DS1 had severe and prolonged jaundice which was a major factor in me losing confidence last time). He is weeing fine and pooing lots of yellow nappies.

I havent had him weighed since he was born (another paranoia I am determined not to allow to take over this time round) but have just realised that the clinic will not be open until a week today what with bank holidays etc.

Looking at photos though, he seems to have lost week - he was 8lbs 11oz at birth and had a chubby face which has now slimmed down. He has got longer though and is wearing 0-3 month clothes rather than newborn.

Unhelpful comments from relatives are making my confidence a little shaky (oh he does look like he has lost a bit of weight......do you think he needs a bit of a top up with formula????)

I am determined to make this work and if I am honest it is working beautfully.

Just needing a bit of reassurance and a pep talk......

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aloha · 27/03/2005 12:28

Popsycal.....don't panic!
Take NO NOTICE of your rellies - they are MAD!
DD is nearly seven weeks and hasn't been weighed since the midwife did it at a week old. I know she is absolutely fine. Luckily I am a fierce old bat and nobody dares suggest I am doing anything wrong! If he is getting longer he is GROWING. Growing is what babies are supposed to do. Please don't worry and only get him weighed if that's what you want to do. I have a tendency to have chubby kids I think, but that's not a moral advantage. People come in all shapes and sizes and as long as your baby is well, happy, alert, growing and weeing etc then you are doing just fine. Some older people seem convinced that breastmilk is inferior to formula - it actually has slightly more calories!

popsycal · 28/03/2005 16:40

thankd folks
feeling a ot calmer and just going with the flow

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popsycal · 01/04/2005 12:58

just to update
just had ds2 weighed - 9lb 3oz at 3 and a half weeks from 8lb 11oz st birth/ down to jst above 25th centile line from 75th but hv was not worried at all and quoted all the stuff i already knew - pooing, weeing, etc - and was really happy with him. 8oz above birth weight is ok with me!

thanks again for all the support and reassurance

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Pagan · 01/04/2005 13:10

I'm with hunkerm. He's a boy and they feed more. It can be so tiring but rest assured you're doing what's best. Sounds like bubba is happy enough with his current supply so to hell with the others. Just smile knowingly and tell them that your giving him the best start in life!

hunkermunker · 01/04/2005 16:29

Popsy, glad to hear all is well with DS - you're fab xxxxxx

dinosaur · 01/04/2005 16:43

That's great popsy - I'm so pleased it's going well for you - you were so kind to me when I was fretting about DS3's jaundice.

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suzi2 · 29/10/2005 21:29

Just as the ladies here have told me many times during my paranoias - you are doing great! if he's weeing, pooing, happy and feeding well then don't worry.

My DS lost his chubby look after a few weeks - got a pointy chin and everything. He looked really skinny for quite a while and now at 12wks he's starting to look a bit sturdier again.

Tell the meaning well relatives that you know best and your baby is thriving!

suzi2 · 29/10/2005 21:30

Whooooopps! This was ages ago! Must look at dates on threads...xxx

moondog · 29/10/2005 21:31

Ah nice one popsycal!
I always want to know what the outcome of threads like these is!

Good for you gal.

aloha · 29/10/2005 21:33

Hooray!

hunkerpumpkin · 29/10/2005 21:37

Brilliant, Popsy! Great feeling to be able to help someone else too, isn't it?

buffytheharpsichordcarrier · 29/10/2005 21:39

nice work popsycal

popsycal · 30/10/2005 21:14

Thakn you
also, last night my friend rang and said she was going to give baby some formula to give herself a break and to get her supply back up again.

I was really nice but explained the whole supply and demand thingy....and she kept going through the night breast feeding instead

a very happy popsy

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hunkermunker · 30/10/2005 21:18

You rock, Popsy, in both senses I can currently think of

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