To Tiktok
I owe you and all the other posters another apology: Having now dewormed cats, spent my money and re-read emails to various colleagues from over a year ago - I can concede the mistake was mine. The cut-off date was 12 weeks not six. So, there you go. Babies benefit unconditionally from exclusive breastfeeding for the first 12 weeks of their lives.
I can only blame it on extreme exhaustion and a poor memory at the mo due to many many many sleepless nights with wailing infant, but I hope that in the spirit of MN discussions, my apology will be accepted.
Now, to the original point - I interpreted Muddler's initial question as asking whether her baby would be detrimentally affected by withdrawing BF at this point. She quoted medical opinion on the subject. My answer was no, and I stick by it.
The Millenium Cohort study found delays in fine and gross motor skills in babies who were not BF or BF for less than 2 months. I cannot locate the hospitalisation data you refer to.
The point here is whether there are significant marginal gains in immune protection or nutrition after 12 weeks, and I can't find any good research to support this.
When I had to make my decision about converting to formula with DS, I too read many research articles. But there is a difference between being asking as a researcher and asking as a mother. Motherhood has been one panic-stricken episode after another for me despite my professional background. And like every mum on this Forum, I only wanted to do the best for DS - hence asking GPs and colleagues. That was not my only resource.
And while I agree with you about lobbying for BF and making it more socially acceptable, I disagree vehemently that individual cases and queries must be dealt with purely against this background. Muddler, who asked a legitimate question, has been alienated by the posts and that can't be a good thing.
Hopefully the more robust amongst us will stay and thrash this out but we all need to be more careful and sensitive in our posts...me included.
Thanks Tiktok for engaging in this discussion - I am not being facetious, I really do appreciate the defense of your position. And honestly, like you - I believe that BF is a wonderful thing and absolutely agree that it should be aggressively promoted where appropriate.