The 'not in a group' thing is from UNICEF, and is based on research that shows demonstrating a practical skill to a group is not a safe or effective teaching method - you'd have to ask UNICEF Baby Friendly if their research is based on an actual study of bottle using parents, but I don't think it is in doubt in educational circles that practical skills have to be performed by the learners in order to assess competence. That goes for brain surgery, manicuring, speaking French, knitting, and just about everything, I suspect! Bear in mind that merely watching these skills, or listening to a description of them, perhaps some weeks before you need to to them for real, is not likely to be v. effective, either.
Now it would be hard to breastfeed in an unsafe way, so group demo'ing and explanation of breastfeeding is not gonna be harmful but the same thing is simply not true of making up a bottle of formula and other skills - especially with the new safety guidance.
To bottle feed safely demands quite a lot of separate tasks. I want to see parents do this safely, and I think the right opportunity is with a midwife or HV, with a real bottle and powder, and ideally in the parents' own kitchen.That should not be beyond the scope of the postnatal services.
I think demo'ing to a group of parents in a breastfeeding class is very undermining to breastfeeding - which needs protecting. It is assuming they will need the info, and they will not continue with breastfeeding.
I agree ff parents may be fragile and may need support. They will not get it with a dim memory of someone making up a bottle weeks or even months before. I support many mothers who call or email about formula, often after they have introduced it and feel mixed and sad about it. I don't judge, and if they wish, I will explain about what might have made their breastfeeding less than wonderful.
Why is the word 'feeding' non-militant and the word 'breastfeeding' militant? I don't get it. It is misleading to talk of 'feeding' counsellors - we can talk about the feelings to do with using formula, but we are not trained to talk about bottles and teats or diffrent brands or types of formula, so it would be very misleading to parents if we changed our 'title'.
Ask anything else if you like - I will try to answer!