I really wanted to just second every thing that tiktoc has said.
I would also URGE you to complain to the PCT about her. Her practice is very out of date. I'm actually shocked at her attitude to br feeding.
Br feeding after 6 months is NOT extended br feeding! The woman is a danger actually, to many little babies by tellig their mums to ween them at 4 months. There is SO much research to back up why it is not good to wean so early, and so much to back up why it is better to at 6 months+ .
She really needs to have her practice updated. Do not feel embarrassed about your HPV either. it is far more common than you would think.
Please put a written complaint in, to help other mums who maybe do not have the kid of resources like this, to ask for advice from...
To just add, there is very very^ little that passes from br milk to the baby which is harmful. medication, illness etc... VERY few medications are contradinitcated, despite the warnings on pretty much everyhting you buy or are prescribed. the reason being that unless at the time of 'testing' the drugs, they also used them with pg or br feeding mums, they can't say in the license that it is ok. So they have to put that warning on the information.
I was having to take, and still am actually, large amounts of morphine when pg and br feeding after dd was born. Now, she did have to be observed for withdrawal, as it does cross the placenta, however, very very very minimal amounts, are passed to her in my br milk. So i have always been able to br feed her, and still am at 19months.
The only medication, really ( with a very few exceptions, which should all be checked of course ) which are excreted or are contraindicated in br milk are drugs used in chemotherapy. that is pretty much the only group that is a real no no. which most people are surprised to hear, since as I say, that warning is on everything! oh, and of course a general anaesthetic and that type of drug...
Please though, thoroughly check it out before br feeding if you are given any kind of medication, aske your GP to look it up i the BNF or check online. your pharmacist will also be able to look it up. There is a section at the back which lists most meds ad if they are contraindicated or if they are ok... most answers are yes