DD1 has lots of cavities, to the extent she needs 4 teeth taking out (she's only 3). The dentist asked how long I'd breastfed her (because I was breastfeeding DD2), I said 2 years and a bit and she said that the recommendations in this country is children are only BF until their top teeth come out. I know this is rubbish. I know it's 12 months or more. I don't see why the top teeth would be more vulnerable than the bottom teeth.
Anyway, I'm really annoyed with myself. Because 1) I didn't know the exact relationship between breast milk and teeth to counteract and 2) I didn't want to come across as obnoxious or something and make her pull out even more teeth from my DD. This is totally stupid as nobody would do such a thing but I just slipped into the patient role and wanted everything to be OK.
Another dr has suggested DD1 has rickets because she was breastfed for too long. She is quite small for her age (3y4m and only 14kg).