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DD doesn't want to BF anymore

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RGPargy · 07/07/2008 12:05

DD (7 months) has been exclusively BF until 5 months and from then on was given a bottle of formula at night and then after that, i gradually phased out BF, going down to just once a day in the mornings.

Anyway, DD is now showing no interest at all in the breast to the extent that i feel like i'm forcing myself on her lol!! If i do shove my boob in her face she takes about 2 or 3 sucks and then is completely not interested.

So i'm reckoning that it's her way of saying "no thanx mummy".

I guess what i'm looking for really is some reassurance that this is a natural progression (a bottle is much easier to drink from than a boob after all!) and that i can be proud of feeding her for the time that i did.

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tiktok · 07/07/2008 12:18

RG - of course you should feel proud Excl bf for 5 mths followed by some breastfeeding therafter is a lot more than most babies in the UK get, and I don't think it has been plain sailing for you, IIRC. It's a lovely start to your relationship with her, as well as the nutrition.

But it's not true that a bottle is easier than a breast, in general terms. Once a day breastfeeding is usually not enough to sustain a supply (unless breastfeeding has been going on a very long time) and it is very common for a baby to lose interest as the supply dwindles...your baby is understandably going for the productive bottle instead and that shows she has figured stuff out

VictorianSqualor · 07/07/2008 12:23

RGPargy.
You've done great, every single feed that you gave her was magical. Be proud of that and enjoy the rest of your lives together.

RGPargy · 07/07/2008 12:25

Hi tiktok

Thanx for your reassurance. It makes sense that she is losing interest if my supply has been dwindling, and I thought that my supply would be ok because i could still squeeze a little out lol.

Oh well, i do feel quite sad about it, but i suppose it's a time for both of us to move on and we are as close as can be and i'm VERY proud of that!

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RGPargy · 07/07/2008 12:27

Thanx VS

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Sunshine78 · 07/07/2008 12:35

My dd did exactly the same thing. I think its because she was so noisey and wanted to see what was going on around rather than facing a blank wall!

You've done really well getting this far. Big hug as I now how sad I felt at first but it doesn't alter how much you love each other.

RGPargy · 07/07/2008 13:05

Thanx Sunshine, the contents of my (open) wardrobe are far more interesting to look at than the ceiling and mummy's enormous boobage!

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