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Infant feeding

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Scampmum · 20/05/2008 11:16

For the last two nights (that constitutes a pattern, right? - has exhibited similar behaviour most nights since birth) my four week old exclusively BF DD has slept well in the evening (from 8/9), gone down OKish after an 11pm/12am feed and then woken up around an hour later in discomfort. She is grunting as if trying to do a poo, whinging on and off but rarely really crying. Doesn't seem hungry (though will feed a bit then lose interest, but not fall asleep or cry). Unfortunately does not then settle for rest of night.

It doesn't seem like what I remember of colic from DD1 - she doesn't appear to be in that real anguish. Could I just be not burping her properly? Her tummy is very, very tight, farts appear to relieve her a bit, she pushes against me a lot with her feet and resists my attempts to bicycle her legs. I think the being up until morning essentially consists of getting into a too-tired-to-eat/too-hungry-to-sleep cycle, which we then try and break in the morning by going for a long walk with her in the sling.

I know this might just be what having a four-week old is like, and in spite of feeling extremely tired (DD1 is 2 so not much daytime catching up possible - DD2 very skilled at being awake in DD1's afternoon nap!) I feel just about OK - I just think if there is something I can do to make her more comfortable from 2am-7am then I should do it. And if it gets me some more sleep, well, that's a significant bonus.

She is sleeping in a moses basket next to me which is tipped up at the head (seems to help, paranoid about reflux which DD1 also had), swaddled in a sheet. Worried last night that she was too hot and night before that she was too cold - damn this unpredictable weather!

So - anyone had similar and discovered a miracle cure?

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Scampmum · 20/05/2008 12:35

BUMP

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scorpio1 · 20/05/2008 12:38

Hi

does sound windy to me. try putting her along your forearm and patting her back, rub in big circles on it too iyswim. Have you tried gripe water? and sit her up very straight to wind and hold by chin.

Scampmum · 20/05/2008 12:39

Thanks!

Hold by chin? Won't her back be too floppy?

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scorpio1 · 20/05/2008 12:41

No, sit her bum on your lap facing to the right of you iyswim. use your other hand to push back up straight whilst lifting chin up iyswim...then you can support one handed. use other hand to rub and pat - i normally rub in big circles clockwise and then pat, repeat etc etc.

Is v hard to explain in words the holding by chin thing

soremummy · 20/05/2008 12:46

another way that works (neonatal told me this) sit baby on knee and support her chin rock her body in circular movements using other hand to support back of head it worked for us and our windy one.

Nursejo · 20/05/2008 12:47

My last DD was like this,except she didnt sleep after last feed around 10-11,seemed very uncomfortable.I always put them on my shoulder to burp as the pressure of your shoulder against their tummies seems to help.I found Gripe water excellent,tried Infacol,but found this awkward with BF.HV taught me some massage,doing a clockwise gentle pressure on her tum,replacing one hand over another in a circle,has to be clockwise though as this is how the bowel lays.Noticed a vast improvement gradually over the next weeks.HTH

TheMaskedPoster · 20/05/2008 14:42

Hi Scampmum,

DD2 (8 wks) is like this from about 5am in the morning (after the 4am feed) - constantly grunting and trying to expel wind etc. The only thing that settles her is coming into bed with me, putting her on her side and gently rubbing her back. I do try and wind her properly after each feed, but the 4am one seems to be a problem for her.

I didn't want to co-sleep at all, but this method seems to work (and the rest of the time - from 8.30pm til 5am she is in her cot) so I'm just going with it.

Hope you get some more sleep soon.
x

Scampmum · 21/05/2008 09:08

More sleep last night but I think perhaps because I was too shattered and slept through her noise! I was SO close to coming down here and ranting at 2am after winding for 45 mins (got quite a few burps but was trying to do it until the squeaking/grunting stopped in case she went to sleep and woke up an hour later). She is still squeaking now after feeding at 7.50 and 8.40ish. I just don't want her to be uncomfortable! I do feel more reasonable now but another thing I was contemplating at 2am was spending our life savings on getting someone to come and stay the night and tell me categorically what she needs! I doubt I would trust them anyway...

thanks for all your help, guys.

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