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10mo biting - handhold required

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Moonlighting · 16/02/2024 09:50

My baby is approaching 11 months old with 4 teeth and he has recently started biting when he feeds. I think it may partly be teething but definitely sometimes he thinks it is a game and is really proud for having given me a bite. It’s obviously extremely painful and he has broken the skin around my nipples. It’s horrible having painful bleeding nipples again after so much effort in the early days to fix latch, cut tongue tie, yada yada!

I am taking him off and putting him down after every bite but what this means is that he is missing most of his feeds (as even if we try again a few minutes later he just bites again) and I am also getting a bit engorged which is adding to my discomfort. He is currently figuring out walking so I have no scope to sit down and pump uninterrupted until after he’s gone to bed in the evening. I also don’t know if I should be offering him bottles instead but then he’s not going to have the impetus to feed properly instead of faffing about at the breasts is he?

What is making this all really hard is that both my DH and my DM are insistent that this biting is the signal that I should stop altogether (both have been encouraging me to stop for ages so this is just another excuse…), but both me and LO love breastfeeding and I had envisioned continuing for the foreseeable. I am just looking for someone to tell me that it’ll get better and we don’t have to stop really!

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KCSIE · 16/02/2024 09:57

My first did this as soon as teeth arrived (just under 4months)! It's so painful. Make sure you keep yourself slathered in lanolin nipple cream and keep any broken skin clean, you DO NOT want an infection there!

It's so hard not to react when they bite but try hard not to.

If it is teething:

Give him something to chomp on / teether/ fridge cold flannel before latching on.

Try giving some pain relief half an hour before breastfeeding him.

Try breast milk ice lollies to sooth gums he can chomp and still have milk intake.

I'm on my second BF journey, my first nursed until a month before turning 3. My second is 10m too and hasn't been a biter (yet) despite having 8 teeth!

Good luck

Moonlighting · 16/02/2024 11:55

Thanks for the advice. I haven’t tried the teething things immediately before a feed so I will do that next! So reassuring to hear you got through it and fed your first into toddlerhood. Hope your second BF journey is also a joy.

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KCSIE · 16/02/2024 15:54

Mine is a very different journey second time around, I think this one will wean a lot quicker (sadly for me, I love the bond!) time will tell.

bzarda · 16/02/2024 15:57

I have an (almost) 10 month old with 6 teeth and the same problem. As hard it is, what's working for us is me trying not to react as much as possible (hard I know) and when she is teething I give her a wet flannel before feeds and that seems to be working.
Good luck!

CadyEastman · 18/02/2024 08:02

My first started this at 7 months and I honestly thought it would be the end of BFing. I rang one of the BFing Helpines and their tips worked. Can't remember exactly what they were as it's so long ago but I think it's definitely worth giving them a call.

I don't know if this from La Leche League is helpful too?

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