with DS, who is now 8.5, i was 23, only had one friend who;d had a baby. she bottle fed, i had hte attitude of wanting my body back after 9 months i chose SMA because it was widely available and came in cartons too...i also wanted DH and my parents etc to be able to feed the baby too.
with DD, who is now 2.9, i was 30 , so bit older and wiser, i had been researching VBAC and read more about birth and breastfeeding. I also gelt strongly i wanted to breastfeed as i would not be having more DCs , so wanted to experience it all.
bought a steriliser, bottles and formula again , just in case, but also bought nursing bras.
towards the end of pregnancy, i started to hvae doubts about breastfeeding, but could not put my finger on why.
anyway, when she was born, my mum said are you going to give her a feed, and i said i had no urge to put her to the breast. so DH gave her a bottle in retrospect . when my milk came in, as i think i have recounted before, i was desperate to breastfeed, and got absolutely no advice or help or information AT ALL. so i tried and failed.
so i bottle fed her like i would have breastfed, skin to skin, eye contact etc..
and i still regret it. and still have the odd dream where dd is breastfeeding. the irony is i had loads of milk and a brilliant let down.
do you think i should have a 3rd DC so i can breastfeed
i used the same formula as i had for DS as it was what i was familiar with, i then swapped to hipp organic after SMA changed their logo to look like a breastfeeding mother, IMO.