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Breastfeeding anxiety?!

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JulyDreams · 18/07/2022 22:52

Hi all, I am hoping I can get some help. I gave birth to my beautiful daughter 6 days ago.

3/4 days ago my milk came in. I have been exclusively breastfeeding my daughter only. Is it common to have a feeling of dread and anxiety as soon as I start feeding her? It disappears after Sad I can't explain the feeling.

Any insight would be appreciated.

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WorkEventing · 18/07/2022 22:52

Yes, it’s completely normal

JulyDreams · 18/07/2022 22:54

Thanks @WorkEventing such a weird feeling

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Duttercup · 18/07/2022 22:54

Yes, it's normal, it goes. Just ride it out and try and remind yourself it's 'just' hormones and not real feelings.

Congratulations on your lovely new baby ❤️

carefullycourageous · 18/07/2022 22:59

I think in the early weeks it is completely normal to feel very weird. Just keep an eye on it that the feelings are not constant or getting progressively worse - but a bit of up and down is to be expected.

I'll be honest - becoming a mother is completely headfucking! Very good luck and have a Brew

DappledOliveGroves · 18/07/2022 23:04

It's normal, albeit somewhat rare I think. I had it quite a lot with first DD and have it intermittently when feeding DD2. With DD1 it's when the let down started - I'd have a wave of doom come over me. This time round it's when DS latches on, before she even sucks properly - I just feel disquiet rather than doom but still a bit on edge. It passes rapidly.

JulyDreams · 18/07/2022 23:13

@WorkEventing wow! I didn't know it had a name. The symptoms are very sadly what I am experiencing. I am hoping the feeling goes otherwise I don't think I can continue breastfeeding.

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JulyDreams · 18/07/2022 23:14

Thank you @carefullycourageous no truer words spoken there. Becoming a mother is fantastic but a headfuck.

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