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Stopping breastfeeding challenges

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LuckyFlash · 12/03/2022 12:18

My little boy is just about to turn 11 months and I am trying to begin weaning him off the boob in anticipation of going back to work in 4 weeks. He seemed happy on 3 boob feeds a day and was eating 3 solid meals alongside this. About 2 weeks ago I cut out the daytime feed so now we are just doing first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Since then he has been suuuper fussy, crying a lot, refusing his afternoon nap a lot and I’m finding that he’s more like this with me than DH. I expected a little reluctance but two weeks seems a long time. I have added snacks and increased dairy in his diet and he’s still sleeping through so I definitely don’t think he’s hungry.

Is it normal for him to be taking so long to adjust?
Is it likely I’m going to have the same battle with the remaining 2 feeds? (He’s still drinking a lot during these feeds)
Any advice for weaning a reluctant baby?

He doesn’t seem interested in extra cuddles with me to make up for it so I’m at a loss to know how to help him adjust.

He has developed a cold in the last few days so is not very well so I’m going to wait till that’s passed and then try getting rid of the morning feed and going straight to breakfast. Is this a bad idea if he’s still drinking a lot in the morning?

I’ll find it very challenging to continue feeding him when I’m back at work due to my hours - I won’t always be home for bed time. Starting to get a bit stressed!

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BlueGreyApple · 12/03/2022 18:19

Babies are all different - some adjust easier and some don't, so it's really hard to say.

You might find he adjusts ok to you feeding him when you are there and not breastfeeding when you aren't there when you go back to work if you haven't stopped by then.
It depends how you feel about stopping breastfeeding and whether it's only because of work you want to give up- but I thought I'd point that out as I think its a myth that older babies need a regular pattern for breastfeeding... they can tell the difference between mummy being available and not being there.

HotDogKetchup · 12/03/2022 18:31

If he’s not like this with your DH my guess is he’ll be absolutely fine when you’re not with him.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 12/03/2022 18:35

Mate il watching with interest my 12 month old seems more interested in ever breastfeeding!! Wants it constantly 😝

Not sure what to do

If it makes you feel better though she has been at nursery since 10 months and manages fine all day without me I think it’s out of sight out of mind tbh 😂 but she super clingy after I pick her up

I have no idea how to stop

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