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5mo BF baby suddenly painful and windy

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ChubbyShcotsBurd · 28/12/2007 13:03

I will freely admit I thought I was the world's greatest expert on windy babies, having birthed a child so farty we regretted not naming him Calor.

However, this became less of a problem with age (still farty but not painful) ... until now. Over the last week he's got grumpy through the day and spends much of his nights crying and straining, waking up, thrashing around etc. He's become more difficult to get to sleep again (after finally getting a bit easier) and gets stuck in twitchy light sleep (meaning one of us has to stay with him and pat his bum to keep him asleep [rolls eyes emoticon]).

I really don't buy the whole mother's diet affecting the baby thing - I got myself so stressed about it in the early days I was surviving on next to nothing, and when I said 'enough's enough' I didn't notice any difference in him. However, I have found myself consuming a LOT (OMG we're talking several kilograms here ) of chocolate and some cream and custard and icecream and butter over Christmas. Until now I have naturally been eating less dairy since having him, just because I haven't felt like it I guess. And I gather it's the only thing there's much evidence for as a source of this problem.

Anyway, I've cut the dairy out for now and I'm going to have a few chocolate-free days, we've started Infacol again and increased the daily tummy massage sessions. Bearing in mind we're meant to be travelling 300 miles with the poor wee mite tomorrow (usually taking us around 7 hours with stops!) and we just can't possibly go if he's this miserable, is there anything else we can try?

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VictorianSqualor · 28/12/2007 14:06

I don't know, but someone will.

Eviewin · 28/12/2007 14:21

My 4 month old ds has a very similar problem with painful farts at night, and has got worse in the last couple of weeks. Thought I'd list everything I've seen that might help, a lot of which I haven't tried:

  • cranial osteopathy (have tried this, helped at 9 weeks, hasn't helped this time)- obviously won't help for tomorrow!
  • fennel tea - sounds like some mums drink it themselves, some give a teaspoon to baby as well - haven't tried this, but plan to
  • baby massage - bicycling motion with legs, and clockwise massage round the naval - this occasionally works for us
  • gripe water / infacol / colief - though these seem to be for bringing up wind rather than passing it, not sure if the two are one and the same. Hasn't worked for us. Soem say Nurse Harveys gripe water is better than woodwards
  • chamomilla granules - not tried this either
  • one sided feeding / making sure you're not overfeeding - the old foremilk/hindmilk balance debate. Not sure about the truth about this, but am starting to try this, because I do switch sides too quickly I think.

We recently did a 6 hour car journey, and he was OK - tired from not sleeping well, and sitting upright both helped him to sleep without incident! Good luck!

HTH!

ChubbyShcotsBurd · 28/12/2007 14:44

Ta verily. Some food for thought ... am wondering if I could get fennel locally, hmmm

Evie I do onesided feeding still and it definitely helped but I think I had oversupply problems (and nearly drowned poor DS every time he latched ). So as long as he is gaining weight OK I'd recommend it to help reduce the wind.

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Eviewin · 28/12/2007 14:55

Thanks, hope the one-sided feeding helps for ds, if I can stop him wriggling too much! I think he gets bored after the inital fast let down.

The only other thing I'd heard was best avoiding was caffeine, and what with my mum and MIL around recently, a lot of tea has been drunk, which might have contributed to our problems..

Mommalove · 28/12/2007 17:17

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ChubbyShcotsBurd · 28/12/2007 17:22

Thanks. I did cut dairy out (albeit not religiously) way back when he was tiny and terribly troubled. It honestly didn't seem to help but then there can be so many factors in these things I will happily try again now.

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Mommalove · 28/12/2007 21:38

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ChubbyShcotsBurd · 28/12/2007 22:06

Mommalove - your kids are so cute!

Thanks for the help ... I am shedding a quiet tear as I type, having said a heartbreaking farewell to cheese for the forseeable future.

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Mommalove · 29/12/2007 00:10

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ChubbyShcotsBurd · 08/01/2008 16:34

Mommalove - does eating beef cause your dcs any trouble? DS been the pits for last 24hrs ... spag bol?!

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