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12 week old suddenly funny at boob

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1234Becca · 05/01/2022 09:38

I had felt so lucky and she was a dream feeding up until about 2 weeks ago.
We have been breastfeeding on demand and sometimes I will express and my partner will give to her, but not routine of when. She also has had a dummy since about 4 weeks and there’s not been any sign of confusion before.
I was worried that my milk supply was low for a number of reasons (a couple of green poops, breasts felt empty, unable to express a huge amount, she’s not continued to sit at the same weight percentile) but after having called a helpline she said not to worry about that and unhelpfully said it was all in my head and I just needed to relax. I think I’m quite relaxed anyway.
Anyway, I don’t believe it’s over supply / fast flow as I can’t express a huge amount and so I was wondering if anyone could suggest what might be up with her when we feed?
It’s mostly towards the end of the day that screaming at the breast happens, she will also wave her arm around and kind of scrunch her body up. It can happen at any time of day though.
I look for hands in a fist for when she’s hungry / but when she’s got hands like this, she flings herself off the boob sometimes. She also cried before she even latches on sometimes too.
And I try to make the environment as calm as possible.
She has plenty of good nappies and sleeps ok! Asides from last night where she was wriggling around a lot but not opening her eyes - I think it was a lot of trapped wind.
This is a really rambley message 🙈
Thanks 😊 xxx

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Sanch1 · 05/01/2022 13:47

Is it one particular boob? My youngest decided at about 3 months that she didn't like my right boob! We eventually weaned off it completely and I just fed her from the left 😊

1234Becca · 05/01/2022 20:38

It’s both now :( did start of being just the left and I thought I would have to end up feeding from just once side but it’s happening with the right now as well.

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Sash887 · 05/01/2022 21:11

My little one was the exact same. I think most go through a phase at some point just keep offering (which is probably exactly what you are doing).I combi fed in the end as I felt my boobs weren't full but apparently they don't need to feel full as once you get use to feeding on demand your body adapts to your babies feeding routine so they don't always feel engorged with milk- only found this out a few months ago. Also my midwife told me we produce the most milk at night so always do the night fees to increase supply ...don't know if that's helpful. I'm nearly 12 months into my breastfeeding journey, (night time only now as he has bottles in the day of formula around food as attends nursery) and its been up and down. Just be kind to yourself it's hard work and you sound like you are doing amazing ❤

Sash887 · 05/01/2022 21:14

Sorry I've just re-read your post maybe your little one has a bit of reflux/colic with you saying she's fussy at nighttime. Do you have a health visitor, I'm sure they could help you with suggestions regarding this.

espresso14 · 05/01/2022 21:18

Both my babies were very fussy at nighttimes, fussy is an understatement. Your boobs will naturally be softer now, as someone said, it's not lack of milk, but potentially just baby difficult evenings. They are very exhausting, I seem to remember daily hoovering to either drown out the crying/thinkinkg hoover noise would help. Never has my house been so clean!

Funauntienowmummytobe · 06/01/2022 21:26

If you are on Facebook I can recommend joining the Breastfeeding UK group, so much information and help there, I have learned so much. I think it's easy to doubt yourself, I have kept up with monthly weigh ins with the HV as I constantly doubt things even though my lo went up a centile to the 98th!

GromblesofGrimbledon · 07/01/2022 03:16

Really could just be a phase. My now 3 month old was a dream then a nightmare then a dream again when feeding. I used to sweat buckets while he thrashed about at the breast. It was so bloody stressful, not to mention rage-inducing. I just dug deep (really deep!), gritted my teeth, and persevered. He was on and off like a bloody yo-yo and battered hell out of me. After a couple of weeks it just stopped. It wasn't my fast let down as I was expressing that with a haakaa before feeds to ensure the flow was slow and comfortable for him. It remains a mystery to me.

Onehotmessiah · 07/01/2022 03:24

I’d say stop expressing if possible and just exclusively breastfeed. If you are expressing at times baby isn’t hungry it might mean that when baby is hungry it might me harder for them to feed from you. Then you feed them from a bottle when they are hungry and your body will be out of kilter with the baby.

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