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Really upset about not being able to take my baby with me if I set up a Peer Counselling session for pregnant women locally... advice please before I go this afternoon to try to sort things out...

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Mossy · 27/11/2007 11:09

I've just finished my training as a Peer Counsellor to provide mother-to-mother support to those wanting to bf.

Sadly I also have to be in a full-time job come January (sooner than I expected due to cash-flow) but I really want to help and came up with the idea of running a session at my local Children's Centre for pg women who want to bf on a Saturday, probably the first Sat of every month to start out.

Often pregnant women are still working right up until the end of their pregnancies and can't make a week-day session, and it would be great for me as I could still work during the week and volunteer on weekends.

I mentioned this to my friend and as she was already in the Children's Centre this morning she mentioned this to them.

They thought it was a great idea apparently, said I should go down and see the existing Peer Counsellor (who runs a postnatal session on a Tuesday p.m.) obviously...

... the one caveat would be, however, that I couldn't take my ds with me (currently seven months old) as he might be a distraction!

I am really upset by this; I actually think it would be great for pg Mums to see real live bfing in action for starters; a picture is worth a thousand words and at another antenatal breastfeeding workshop I attend it's actually a real help to use ds as a demonstration model!!

I'm going to go down this afternoon to speak to the current peer counsellor to see if she wants to get involved, but right now I feel a bit like "f*ck it, what's the point?"

There's no creche either and tbh I'll be working all week so won't want to spend even more time apart from ds...

I just wanted to sound off really but also get a bit of advice, what's the best way to persuade the Children's Centre that having ds with me would actually be an asset rather than a distraction?

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Mossy · 30/11/2007 14:26

Morocco our SureStart is open on Saturday as that's when they have the majority of men's stuff. Might be worth suggesting it, if they have the funding...

JenT, I found out about it through our local SureStart children's centre; might be worth asking at yours? Or ask your HV (if you have a good one!)

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Mommalove · 30/11/2007 14:40

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EricL · 30/11/2007 14:45

It won't be like this forever though - when the baby is more older/active it will prove too much of a distraction.

Mossy · 30/11/2007 17:58

Well, my friend who is a BFC takes her nursing toddler everywhere with her and so far she has proven nothing but an asset!

At the antenatal bf group I attended on Thursday several of the Mums said how it had made them feel happier about bfing seeing older babies at the breast...

... so I will just have to see how it goes. After all, I'm doing it in my own free time for free...

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