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Combined feeding experiences

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FebruaryJuly · 25/06/2021 18:55

Can I have your experiences of combined feeding?

Due to weight gain issues getting to birth weight, my son and I were put onto a plan where he had his usual breast feed, followed by as much formula as he would take until satisfied and asleep. This worked as he gained weight much quicker. He gets tired quickly during breastfeeds and falls asleep too quickly, never getting to the good part of the feed.

I have also been expressing in between feeds to give him in a bottle after coming off me but he is still never settled until having the formula (usually only takes around 3oz once he has had breast). The expressing is getting too much and takes forever, I also have a 5 year old and I am not spending enough time with him.

I always planned to exclusively breastfeed as I didn't get that chance with my first due to latch issues. My second (current baby), never settles with just breast and introducing the formula after his breastfeeds has given me such a break as I have been non stop feeding, as in only having maximum 5 minutes of him being off before going back on throughout the day and night! So much that I don't want to go back to exclusively breastfeeding, is this bad of me?

I am close with my BF support group and my journey so far has been a rollercoaster! Low supply, now to over supply and also the starting of mastitis!

With my 5 year old, we bottle fed and our lives felt so much easier! Now that my second is 4 weeks, I have considered going fully formula but get upset at the thought of no more breastfeeds.

I had never heard of combined feeding until now. How can I do this? Am I able to only breast feed in the evening for example and bottle feed the rest? Can you alternate breast one feed, bottle next feed etc.? I'm finding it confusing but I'm at the point now where if combined doesn't suit or work at this point in time (I can't bare waiting any longer for him to be older), it will be just formula and no more breast.

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FebruaryJuly · 25/06/2021 19:02

I also want to add that when I was exclusively breastfeeding, all he would do is cry all day. Since adding formula into the mix, he is such an awake, alert and happy baby. I don't want to go back to the constant crying, so it's definitely either combined or fully formula for me. I would love to know I can breast feed at least once in the day without having to be exclusive for the whole day!

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FebruaryJuly · 25/06/2021 19:03

Really, I just need to know how I go ahead with a schedule of feeds or how I plan when I breastfeed and when I formula feed for the combined feeding route.

I also worry that I will over feed him with formula so I would love to know how to break the feeds up properly when combined feeding. X

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Piccalily19 · 25/06/2021 21:00

Hi!
I have a 5 month old who was mix fed from
3 weeks old and in the last two weeks we’ve switched to fully formula (my choice).
At 3 weeks I started with 1 feed (around 10pm) as formula.
Then I added another formula feed around a month later around lunchtime.
Then at 3 months old I added another formula in the morning so it normally worked out I did 1 ff, 1 bf, 1 ff etc throughout the day.
Then for about a month I did 1 feed at around 7pm before his bedtime and then I did his night feed around 3am. Apart from the odd lucky night he’s always woke once for feeding. This seemed to work well and my supply seemed to keep up well. I then decided I was ready to stop so dropped the 7pm one and then after another random sleep through night my supply seemed to be drying up. he was waking again around 5 which I guess was due to not getting a proper feed.
I was the same as you, for various reasons didn’t like BF and wanted to try combi but wasn’t worried if my supply dried up. I think if id stuck to 2/3 BFs a day my supply would of kept up fine.

My advice would be drop one at a time and spread out your bfs as equally as you can, and keep the night feed (sorry!) as apparently that’s key time for maintaining supply.
I also did both breasts at each feed- normally did 5mins then switch and keep switching until he was full.
When I got down to 1 feed my boy did start to lose interest in BF and prefer bottles so that could happen.
But if you’re saying it’s that or formula you may as well give it a go 😊 and even if your supply drops and he only gets a bit then he will just want his next bottle earlier id guess
Hope it works for you!

Lovethatjourneyforme · 26/06/2021 05:19

@FebruaryJuly my LO is only 3 weeks and we've just started combi feeding so can't offer that much advice but just wanted to say theres a group on Facebook which I have found really helpful - UK formula, bottle and combination feeding support. The posts on there have answered loads of my questions.

Also, no that is absolutely not bad of you. People combination or formula feed for lots of reasons and your mental health and wellbeing is a perfectly valid reason. Better to just be fed and have a happy mumma!

bishbashbosh99 · 26/06/2021 06:13

I combi fed my second from birth.

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