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Eight weeks suddenly no letdown

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YukoandHiro · 12/12/2020 07:59

My baby is 8 weeks a suddenly I seem to have lost my letdown. Until a day ago I had a very fast letdown and very good supply ana my baby has piled on weight, born on the 25th centile and now on the 90th. Suddenly my breasts feel soft all the time and though there is milk, the strong letdown has disappeared and last night she cluster fed for hours before finally sleeping. I know it’s normal for supply to settle around now but I’ve only ever lost my letdown once before when I had the flu (with my older child, when she was about four months). I can’t feel either the rush of milk or see a clear change in suck/swallow pace and she’s fussing at the nipple a bit too, so I feel like the milk isn’t flowing. Feeds were very short before as it gushed and now they are longer. I’m really worried. Everyone in the house has a mild cold and I’m suffering badly with lack of sleep as a result and do feel a bit dizzy from it, but that’s the only thing that’s changed. I’m eating and drinking. I know anxiety can cause letdown issues so don’t want to make it worse but can’t help being concened!

I do think lack of sleep is an issue. And I'm worried that my massive oversupply has regulated down too fast. She only ever fed on one breast as she would be so full afterwards. I did try both each time but she never took it.

Her nappies have been wet but she hasn't wet one in the last two hours so I will have to keep a close eye on that all day.

I'm so exhausted and anxious. Why has this happened so suddenly?

I fed my first child til she was 2y 8m and really can't bear the idea that our journey might be faltering so soon.

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FippertyGibbett · 12/12/2020 08:02

What are you eating and drinking ?
You need to have a glass of water every time you feed. That’s on top of cups of tea etc.
Make sure you are eating well, plenty of protein. You feed yourself to feed your baby.
And sleep when she sleeps.

YukoandHiro · 12/12/2020 08:12

I agree maybe I haven't had enough to eat and drink in the last few days as I'm run ragged with my toddler ill and husband working long hours and my parents keeping their distance (we're getting a Covid test for my toddler today).
I really think lack of sleep is an issue but I'm now so stressed it's stopping me sleeping! Massive catch 22.

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Shinygoldbauble · 12/12/2020 08:13

The strong let down feeling does stop as time passes but you still have milk.

Shinygoldbauble · 12/12/2020 08:15

kellymom.com/bf/got-milk/supply-worries/letdown/

YukoandHiro · 12/12/2020 08:18

Is that true even if the suck/swallow mechanism doesn't shift either? It just feels so different so suddenly. She's sleeping well after a 6am feed though so I guess can't be too hungry!

I did have an over over supply and I'm worried it's suddenly shifted down too fast.
I'm eating and drinking a lot to try to help my body prepare itself.
So nappies is the main thing to look at? As well as weight gain?

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Shinygoldbauble · 12/12/2020 08:21

The let down feeling definitely stopped for me and I breastfed dc1 for over a year and dc2 for almost 3 years.
Is your baby seems satisfied, is gaining weight and has lots of wet nappies then your are doing well.

Shinygoldbauble · 12/12/2020 08:24

It's still a good idea to eat well, drink plenty and look after yourself too. 8 weeks is still brand new and you've been working hard for all those weeks.

BertieBotts · 12/12/2020 08:27

Don't panic! Sounds like your milk supply has regulated but maybe a bit more suddenly than with DC1.

Keep feeding, drink water, if it was true lack of sleep affected BF, god/evolution would have made newborns sleep more Wink

When I was worried about my supply I found if I put the baby to the breast every hour for a day it always felt like things were boosted by the next day.

YukoandHiro · 12/12/2020 08:42

The suck swallow mechanism has just totally stopped. I'm so stressed and upset which is absolutely making everything worse!!!

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YukoandHiro · 12/12/2020 09:04

Ok I just got one but it took more than 10 mins and lots of breast compressions. At least it still works!

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