How compatible are they? I enjoyed a glass of wine most nights with DS though he wouldn't wake for a feed for quite some time after that wine. But DD is waking a couple of hours after a glass and I'm feeding her. I'm not worried at all about it in a one off sense, but more concerned that there's a cumulative effect to her getting tiny amounts...
Actually, no, it's my friend that's 'worried' (nagging) about the cumulative effects...