Has anybody else done this and how did you do it?
Ds is due in a few weeks, and I am hoping to successfully breast feed him. Unfortunately I was unable to with DD due flat nipples, lack of knowledge and support, tongue tie...and various other issues, therefore despite some colostrum i managed to hand express she was formula fed from birth.
I am nervous about exclusively breast feeding for a number of reasons.
DD will only be 14 months when ds comes along, so still very much in need of me. Aside from my husband I have ZERO support, so having him be able to feed and settle DD has been a real life saver for us, and has helped us to function. I would like dh to also be able to feed ds as and when is necessary to allow me to spend time with DD, but to also help split the load.
As much as I would like to exclusively breast feed, I just know that with our personal circumstances that baby being able to take a bottle, be that of breast milk or formula a few times a day will be much healthier for our family dynamic.
Has anybody been in a similar situation? Did it work? I'm thinking that to start i will breast feed in the day, but will give ds a bottle before bed, and then alternate breast and bottle throughout the night.
Does this sound realistic?