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DD has forgotten how to sleep and just wants milk

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tinkerbellhadpiles · 11/03/2007 20:56

PLEASE someone tell me this is temporary. My DD (20 weeks old) has two new teeth and has just got over a nasty viral gastric thing which had both of us hurling for England.
During the last week we both basically took to my bed and nursed each other better (well I nursed her, she just lapped it up and farted a lot) but I digress.
Now I've started trying to get her back into her cot and she did sleep in her cot last night, well actually she didn't sleep, she went down at 7:30, woke again at 8:00 got her back to sleep, fed her at 10pm (dreamfeed), then up at midnight, five minutes of milk and then back to sleep but then the little sod woke up at 2am really upset, and I finally gave up trying to settle her at 3am and fed her and she slept till about 6ish, at which point I took her back to bed with me and she fed and slept till 7:30.
She doesn't seem to be going more than a couple of hours between feeds and is really screamy (never has been before, she's always been a placid little soul).
She used to do, 10pm till 5am on a regular basis (for about three weeks) and I thought hurrah we've cracked this, the constant revising from baby books like we have 'A Level Baby' exams coming up has paid off, but then things changed.
Please someone tell me this is normal, I'm a first time mum and very very tired. I know rationally she's not doing this deliberately and when she wakes up her tummy is grumbling away audibly so I know she is really hungry not just being a habit muncher (or do I? Actually I do think she comfort feeds but I don't really know a baby who doesn't if they have the opportunity).
Help!

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morningpaper · 11/03/2007 20:58

With babies this young I let them do what they wanted, even if that meant attaching them to my chest and putting them under my duvet

You never know if it is illness/pain etc.

Have you tried calpol?

isaidno · 11/03/2007 20:59

She could be having a growth spurt, and making up for being poorly. Keep putting her back in the cot and it should gradually improve ... but from her pov sleeping with mummy and milk on tap is very nice!

tinkerbellhadpiles · 11/03/2007 21:05

Hi morningpaper

Yes we worship the pink goddess of Calpol on a daily basis although my mum rang me yesterday to tell me all about the horrid things in it

I do hope it is a growth spurt. Otherwise I'm doomed.

Oh and Isaidno she thinks being in bed with me is the best ever especially as she has learned how to undo the nursing cups on my bra and help herself. Unfortunately she has two teeth and is not all that careful so I quite often have to be prised off the ceiling swearing that I'm moving out to live in the garden where only the ants will nip me

She can't really afford another growth spurt anyway, she's on the 91st percentile (yep on BM alone) goodness only knows what'll happen when we start on solids!!!!

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morningpaper · 11/03/2007 21:07

hehe yes you shouldn't give Calpol very OFTEN - I do it twice a week max if possible, it's terrible stuff

tinkerbellhadpiles · 11/03/2007 21:31

Funnily enough we do Calpol about twice a week too, when the teething gel doesn't cut it and she's been screaming so much I need a paracetamol.

Mostly though I just wave a tit in her face and she settles down for a feed.

But I think this is where I came in.....

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moogyboobles · 11/03/2007 22:43

We don't do calpol, ds2 is 4 and never had it in his life.
I love my homeopathy me, fantastically good on fevers and teething.
If you haven't got the right remedy to hand I find emergency essence (a bush flower remedy similar to rescue remedy) can help if both of you take it!

mrsmalumbas · 11/03/2007 22:48

I'd say growth spurt definitely - her nursing more is her way of boosting your milk supply, it will soon catch up. Could something be unsettling her - are you stressed, any changes at home? Hang in there, it will get better.

snookie28 · 11/03/2007 23:11

Can you just confirm again that your 20 week dd knows how to open the clip and pull down your bra. Am really stunned that such a young baby would have such dexterity

Does everyones dc do this from such a young age or is my dd (23 weeks) just slightly slow for batting at my breast when she fancies a feed?

tinkerbellhadpiles · 12/03/2007 13:28

Hi Snookie, yep she's been able to fiddle with things for a while but it IS apparently unusual. She also started passing toys hand to hand at 12 weeks (in front of a very spooked HV!). But she can't crawl and tends to use her feet in preference to her hands to grab toys (we suspect she's a monkey!!!) [grin}

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