My youngest two, dd1 and dd2 are 23 months and 14 weeks. Dd2 has been demanding from day 1 as in frequent feeds, won't nap, silent reflux, won't sit in anything, hates the sling unless Hoover is on, etc. Needed a dummy early on as needed to suck something but was full up so wouldn't just suckle on me. The only thing that was going well (after the thrush cleared...) was breastfeeding but that has taken a nosedive. She is getting to the nosy stage so won't feed, as the slightest little disturbance puts her off then she cries because she's still hungry (I think) and then doesn't know if she wants her dummy or a feed. So she bobs on and off for ages, it is hurting me and she ends up screaming to the point of exhaustion. Whitenoise worked for a while as it dulled down the noise of my toddler but she seems to hate it now. Night feeds have increased as I don't think she's feeding enough in the day. But last night she even seemed to have breast aversion during the night. I'm exhausted. I think if there was no distraction she would do better, but how do I create a peaceful setting when my toddler is crashing around as she does not understand how to sit or be quiet. How do other people manage??