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getting BF baby to take a bottle of ebm

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Blueturquoise · 03/01/2016 13:39

Hi
I need to leave my 11 week old in a few weeks to go back to work for a few sessions. It s unaviodable
She won't take a dummy / soother (fine) she seems to have difficulty holding it in
Have tried her on a few occasions with a bottle and she can't seem to manage it at all
We have tried Mam bottles and nuk bottles (first stage)

Any tips for getting her to take a bottle ? Have ac few weeks yet
She a great feeder and growing and sleeping well otherwise

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museumum · 03/01/2016 13:40

Who is looking after her? If it's her dad or gps then I would probably just use a cup. My ds would not take bottles, trying was hellish.
A nursery will need bottles but family could manage with a cup I think.

Watto1 · 03/01/2016 13:44

Have you tried getting someone else to feed her? My dd would not take a bottle from me or from anyone else as long as I was in the house. The moment I went out, she happily guzzled an entire bottle when DH fed her!

Blueturquoise · 03/01/2016 14:45

Haven't tried with me out of the house. Minders will be various mum friends as will be odd hours and she s so small I don't want to use nursery / Creche yet. Will need to be bottle as won't be dh etc

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scrivette · 04/01/2016 08:00

I had a bottle refuser until I tried the Tesco Value bottles (£1 each) and after a few tries he would take a tiny bit and when my Mum tried he took a good few ounces.

The value bottles have a very soft teat and I had seen them recommended on here by a midwife.

BooOzMoo · 04/01/2016 08:09

I tried with both my breastfeeders as did DH and GP and we tried every single bottle under the sun!!!! Never took the bottle!

G1veMeStrength · 04/01/2016 08:12

DD drove me demented with this problem. In the end she drank (away from me) if the milk was a lot lot warmer than I had been trying. Obv don't scald your baby!!! But try different temperatures. Good luck

Schmoochypoos · 04/01/2016 08:13

Following with interest, I need to attend a training course at the end of the month for 3 days and will be out the house 830-4pm. My 20 week old has refused every type of bottle so far - think we've tried 6 types.

When people say a cup do you mean just a free flow soppy cup type thing? How do they drink it? Doesn't it just sort of pour out and loads get wasted? Sorry to jump on the thread OP

Schmoochypoos · 04/01/2016 08:13

*sippy not soppy!

Blueturquoise · 04/01/2016 23:13

She took an oz on two seperate occasions today from a nuk bottle with a latex teat. It's no victory yet though I won't celebrate till she s done it a few days in a row. I m terrified she ll reject it completely tomorrow

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scrivette · 05/01/2016 09:12

That's good at least, just keep trying with a small amount each day, then when she has to have a lot more at least she knows how to do it.

Cheesypop · 05/01/2016 09:21

I was a nanny to a very small baby who was a bottle refuser. Obviously as she was being left with me I had to try everything possible to get her to take it. Eventually I worked out that I could hold the bottle to her lips and start singing. She would be so mesmerised/relaxed by the singing that she allowed the bottle into her mouth and eventually started to drink a bit. It took a few goes but we got there. Also her mum was not around - doubt this would have worked if she thought her mum was nearby. I also made the milk quite hot, as she seemed to prefer that.

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