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Confused by MW advice......

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Sparrowlegs248 · 04/08/2015 18:15

DS is 11 days old. 9lb 1 when born, 8lb 9 when weighed on day 6 ( i think) 8lb 11 yesterday. Yestrdays mw had quite a lot to say about my feeding. So far everyone has said 'well done youre doing brilliantly' and 'just feed him when hecasks' Etc.

Sometimes he feeds constantly. Others he will go a couple of hours, up to 3 1/2 overnight. I have no idea what is normal. He does sick/spit up at all (has done twice) and doesnt get much wind. Because he has only put on a small amount of weight mw said i need to get him.to feed for as long as possible atva time, then hopefully he will go longer between feeds. She feels he is constantly 'topping up' and not feeding properly. Despite sometimes feeding firvAGES. But then said if hes showing hungry signs, feed him. Which is what i do - i dont feed him for no reason.....

So, i this clustr feeding normal? it resulted in feeds at 11, 2.30 and 7 overnight (the 2.30 feed lasted til almost 4)

Today he hasnt gone for more than about an hour or 90 minutes between feeds, often much much less. Until now, ithinknhe will snooze for a couple of hours then start again.

She also said he needs more nipple in his mouth but i have nonidea how to achienve this. He latches himself onnand doesnt fuss so i assume hes getting whst he needs.

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Sparrowlegs248 · 11/08/2015 09:40

Also he rarely ends up crying for a feed, he's fairly obvious in his mouthing , lip smacking cues. :-)

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Nannynome · 11/08/2015 10:55

My DD is 20 days old and has only just started stabilising her feeds out, today is the first day she hasn't been cluster feeding. She was just under her birth weight last week and is being weighed tomorrow, she had bad jaundice so it has taken her a bit longer to recover her birth weight. As long as your baby is seeing and pooing regularly, poos are yellow and not a green colour and is not losing weight but slowly gaining you shouldn't doubt yourself, you are doing an awesome job!

Imeg · 11/08/2015 11:07

Mine had poor weight gain and breast compressions really helped me so that sounds like a helpful suggestion. Mine had been feeding for hours on end and when I did the compressions the feeds got much more efficient. Mine had a good latch but wasn't very good at actually sucking/swallowing, he would spend ages on there but not actually get much milk, and the compressions more or less squirted the milk into him. It then didn't take long for him to work out how to do it better himself.

I found this link really helpful:
www.nbci.ca/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=8:breast-compression&catid=5:information&Itemid=17

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