My baby is 3 weeks old and I am really struggling with breast feeding. My nipples are bruised, cracked and sore and feeding is agony -it is making me cry. I find myself fantasizing about giving him a bottle so i can avoid the pain. I have been to breast feeding clinics multiple times and spoken to my health visitor. He has been checked for tongue tie and his latch is good (apparently although given how sore I am I can't see how it can be?). They have suggested that I play around with position on once he is latched on to see if that improves things. I have tried nipple shields but i couldn't get then to stay on. My baby seems happy with feeding although it it must surely be more enjoyable for him if less stressful for me? He is gaining weight.
They also suggested that I try and express and supplement the odd feed with expressed milk to give my nipples a chance to heal. Can anyone offer any advice in general or specifically what a good pump would be to get?
It had been my intention to ebf for six months then express for some feeds when I go back to work so want one that is efficient and last