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Help -night comfort feeding and teething

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Jazzle37 · 25/09/2014 10:56

DD is just about 6 months old. She has all the signs that she is teething, flushed cheeks, dribbling and chewing everything etc and she has not slept for longer than about 2hrs at a time overnight at all this wk and will not settle without breastfeed. last night was 7-8 times. And by 4am I am not able to get back to sleep having been up and down so much. previous was waking once or twice fro short feeds around midnight and 4am

She barely sleeps in the day, lucky if she gets an hour most days (yesterday slept about 10min all day despite trying feeds in quiet dim rooms, walking in pram etc, when she did fall asleep the phone rang and woke her) but I used to think at least the nights ok. We are both tired and she's grumpy and clingy, mostly crying when not being fed or held andwalked around all day but I can't carry her for long as she is too heavy for my back now.

What can I do? She has had cal pol teething gel and powders to no result. I can't keep up this feeding all night anymore. She will not take a bottle of formula from me or DH even though she's had it from my mom before and I don't get great results expressing unless I have missed a feed. I really want to give her to my mom for a night so I can grt a decent sleep but my mom is worried she won't take the formula from her either now.

Very long post but getting desperate for sleep for both of us - finding it hard to cope with the daytime with such bad nights.

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josephine1986 · 25/09/2014 12:37

Can you try cosleeping ? If done safely it can be a godsend and also quite lovely

Jazzle37 · 25/09/2014 14:08

I tried doing that when she was really little and wanted to start the day at 5am, but i was never able to relax with her there

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Writerwannabe83 · 25/09/2014 15:48

Hi Jazzle - I'm having the exact same problem and I'm exhausted. DS had turned 6 months and used to sleep 8-8 with one wake up for a feed at about 3am. However, over the last 3 nights thing have gone horrendous due to his teething. He is up every 2.5 hours, grizzling and crying and only settling with a breast feed. Sometimes it can up to two hours to get him to go back to sleep - but he's up again 2-3 hours later. We are both exhausted and I have been in tears every night. It's just unbearable and I'm struggling to maintain it too. I co-sleep with him (since this has been happening) and it doesn't make a jot of difference. His teeth aren't suddenly going to stop hurting just because he's lying next to me. He probably finds more comfort being in bed with me but it makes no difference in terms of how often he is waking.

I don't know what the answer is but at least you know you aren't the only one Thanks

Writerwannabe83 · 25/09/2014 15:48

Hi Jazzle - I'm having the exact same problem and I'm exhausted. DS had turned 6 months and used to sleep 8-8 with one wake up for a feed at about 3am. However, over the last 3 nights thing have gone horrendous due to his teething. He is up every 2.5 hours, grizzling and crying and only settling with a breast feed. Sometimes it can up to two hours to get him to go back to sleep - but he's up again 2-3 hours later. We are both exhausted and I have been in tears every night. It's just unbearable and I'm struggling to maintain it too. I co-sleep with him (since this has been happening) and it doesn't make a jot of difference. His teeth aren't suddenly going to stop hurting just because he's lying next to me. He probably finds more comfort being in bed with me but it makes no difference in terms of how often he is waking.

I don't know what the answer is but at least you know you aren't the only one Thanks

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