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Is this blog-post supportive of breastfeeding?

13 replies

Grasshopper1 · 02/08/2014 07:10

Hi MNers,
A friend of mine was talking about this blog-post earlier today. She felt it really missed it's intended mark of encouraging women to breastfeed.
What does the wise MN community think?
HERE

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PterodactylTeaParty · 02/08/2014 07:23

I think it's a bit odd the author tells breastfeeding mothers they should take themselves into special private rooms to feed when out if the house, and doing otherwise is indiscreet, a sign that you're more interested in making a social statement than in feeding the baby, and just like peeing in public - and then wonders why so many women feel uncomfortable bfing in public.

tiktok · 02/08/2014 08:39

It's incoherent. The mother is confused and judgmental. Don't be fooled by the cosy, jokey, hey y'all tone of it!

Surfsup1 · 02/08/2014 09:24

The public urination comparison seems rather at odds with an encouraging message!!

mignonette · 02/08/2014 09:26

Gotta hide my breastfeeding womanliness in case it brings down society.

And if she is comparing BF with urination she clearly didn't pay a lot of attention on biology 101.

AskBasil · 02/08/2014 09:27

No.

It's full of shit.

callamia · 02/08/2014 18:39

It's awful and contradictory.
I don't feel 'supported', I feel hectored and confused.
Just feed your baby when and wherever you like 'y'all'

Fizzyplonk · 02/08/2014 18:45

Started okay-breastfeeding does need to be learnt. For me this wasn't too hard akin to learning to use a tampon or put contact lenses in- takes a few days but then no big deal. Not everyone has issues but neither is it something you can do automatically.

After that it was nonsense.

callamia · 02/08/2014 18:48

It's awful and contradictory.
I don't feel 'supported', I feel hectored and confused.
Just feed your baby when and wherever you like 'y'all'

FiftyShadesOfGreen4205 · 02/08/2014 18:52

She's writing shite. And I hate the pretend friendly tone while her (I imagine) cold, dead eyes are directing you towards a public toilet.

shinynewname · 03/08/2014 07:07

"when the baby gives her thrush" charming.

Yeah it's confused and not well written.

Littlef00t · 03/08/2014 10:43

I don't like the encouragement to use the extra special room just for me. What if I want a coffee and cake while I'm feeding? I don't want to have to seek out the private room even if there is one available. I don't think I'm making a feminist statement by choosing for bf not to dictate my day.

Littlef00t · 03/08/2014 10:45

And and I feel she almost belittles the right to have a view about breastfeeding in public because it can be sooo hard. Well, for me it was painful for a while but not difficult, and we are allowed to worry about lesser issues even while more serious issues exist. That's why we have the phrase first world problems!

squizita · 03/08/2014 21:20

It seemed very odd... you can't make wise decisions about medical things like mastitis etc' because your poor little brain is deciding whether to feed under a shawl or not? Hmm Pretty sure we can decide/do both.
It's just really confused and odd. Like a tipsy rant.

It didn't seem coherent.

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