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2 week old EBF. Is this normal?

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Nunyabiz · 20/06/2014 19:18

DD2 (2 weeks old) is very unsettled after feeds. She is EBF and I try not to eat anything that will upset her tummy. I bf'd my first daughter for the first 6 months with great difficulty and thought she was a particularly gripey/colicky baby but beginning to think this must be the norm.

She was a good birth weight (4.4) and has since gained weight (4.5 at last weigh in).

DD2 screams and kicks for up to 3 hours after feeds. She will exhaust herself and fall asleep and wake up suddenly in pain. It's horrible!

I try several positions. Try to give her a good 30-60 mins upright burping before laying her down. I have resorted to wearing her in the baby carrier upright most of the day to avoid her projectile vomiting a good amount of her feed.

I have a fast let down (it literally streams like a hose!) and she chokes and coughs on the first few gulps. I try to express a bit at the start of a feed to slow it down and also I lay on my back... But she still drowns in it! And she also does this clamping thing trying to stop the flow.
Is this just the way it is until she adapts to feeds?
Or is unusual for a new born?

I don't know whether to just endure and let her adjust over the next few weeks or if I should be concerned and consult someone.

She also has a bloated tummy (looks like a frog) but is pooing 4-6 times a day (which requires a lot more upset and griping) and plenty of wet nappies. Seems like she is just constantly in pain.

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tiktok · 20/06/2014 20:29

:( :(

No, it's not nomal, Nunyabiz.

Call a breastfeeding line and ask about over-supply....sounds like this is what you have. It is easily fixed.

It's highly unlikely to have anything to do with your diet, or the length of time spent burping (30-60 mins - wow!).

Nunyabiz · 20/06/2014 22:22

Hmm thanks tiktok. I called la leche crying when my milk came in as I was so engorged. She was all very "mmmm... Ohhh...mmm...yeah...mmm...sad" (cabbage leaves and all that)
No real advice... So i am hesitant to call again. I have been discharged by the midwife now but I could find the number and try to see them again. Do you (or anyone here) have any advice on how to solve oversupply that I haven't already tried?

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CelibacyCakeandElevatorMuzac · 20/06/2014 22:26

Have you got a breastfeeding support group near you? I'm in Warrington and we have Bosom Buddies, they have been amazing help tome.

Are you on Facebook? There are a few groups on there that may be able to help. I'm a member of Breastfeeding Babies and Beyond (DS is 15 mo) and there are ladies there who are doing full term BF and have so much experience - they may be able to help.

I will PM you and see if I can get you approved asap if you like?

tiktok · 20/06/2014 22:35

Sorry you had a poor experience, Nunyabiz - there are other helplines, but there are plenty of other sources of info about over supply and what to do about it.

Try looking here:

kellymom.com/bf/got-milk/supply-worries/fast-letdown/

2 weeks in is very soon to be sure it's over supply which is why I still think you should talk to someone :)

CelibacyCakeandElevatorMuzac · 20/06/2014 22:46

Oh yes, at 2 weeks your supply can be all over the place, try not to worry Flowers

Namelessonsie · 20/06/2014 22:49

Block feeding. Sorted my oversupply due to tandem feeding. Google kellymom block feeding, can't link as feeding and on phone :)

Namelessonsie · 20/06/2014 22:50

That is if it is over supply of course. I bow to Tiktoks wisdom

Nunyabiz · 20/06/2014 23:39

Great thanks everyone. I have had a read of that link tiktok and it ticks all the boxes. I know it's early days so hoping it will calm down soon (and not take up to 12 weeks like the article says Confused)
Horrible to see her suffering like this. Not sure about block feeding as I'm still engorged and could not go more than one feed without emptying the other boob but I have always done one boob per feed which is more manageable.
As far as all the positions go etc, seems I'm already doing that. I will have a look at my notes tomorrow and see if they have a breast feeding group nearby (we're in London btw celibacy but thanks for the suggestion x)

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Haahoooo · 21/06/2014 21:17

Have you tried 'laid back bf', or biological nurturing which I think is the technical term. I've had real issues bf 8 week old DS which are partly due to his size and weight (long, heavy, so difficult to position) and partly, I think, due to fast letdown.

Basically you recline on sofa or bed, place baby on you on his or her tummy, and let them find nipple by themselves and feed. Has resulted in a more comfortable latch and less pulling off / squirming for us.

Good luck

redrum29 · 28/06/2014 18:45

What you describe is exactly what I felt a couple of weeks ago and so I tried block feeding (on a small scale - one breast per feed) to reduce my milk supply - although i was engorged the first couple of times, it did actually work.
Although I started off thinking my fast let down was the issue, I am now beginning to wonder if it is a reflux issue. My DD shares the things you describe - distended tummy, crying after feeds - but to me she seems to be in pain, and it has got worse over the past few days. She is now 4 weeks.
Good luck in figuring it out - how i wish they could just tell us what's bothering them..

mrsmugoo · 28/06/2014 18:48

It sounds like typical newborn "colic" they grow out of it. It's distressing but entirely normal, you just have to ride it out.

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