Will try to keep the whole story brief- ds born at 35 weeks at 3lb 3oz. In Scbu 3 weeks tube fed. Failed to establish breastfeeding so expressed for about 6 weeks and has been ff since. Was told in Scbu that he had a slight tongue tie but it wouldn't affect feeding. Went back to gp/hv repeatedly with feeding problems but since he has gained weight pretty well they've not been interested. Finally had tt snipped privately 3 weeks ago. Feeding improved a bit but for the last few days it's been horrendous again- he will not take the bottle at all- flinches away, arches back, turns head etc. I've had to wait til he's ready for a nap and feed him asleep when he'll drink 6-7 oz no problem. He seems so anxious/ stressed about feeding now- almost like a phobia and I'm definitely not helping as I'm also really tense around feeds. Have tried everything- different bottles/ teats, different positions, distracting him, singing, tv and no joy. Doctor suggested calpol . Am totally stuck and it's really getting me down. Any ideas??