This is not smug - I had such a rotten time feeding ds at the start - he was readmitted to hospital for losing weight and put on a drip and formula. But I stuck with it, and he loves bf so much - he lunged at me today with a cry of pleasure and started drinking and it just made me think he's so full of joy, and its wonderful. Just wanted to share. Feel free to wander off and make a cup of tea now.