Hi
When I had DS1 I decided to breastfeed him. My Mum had fed me, I heard all the benefits and luckily for me I found it easy (but tiring) and DS gained weight really well.
MIL nagged and nagged about weaning onto a bottle do others could feed. I didn't.
Mentioned using follow on milk several times- I didn't.
DS2 also breastfed and grew well at 91st for height amd weight- MIL didn't nag to move onto bottles this time. When weaning emerged that DS is cows milk intolerant. MIL suggested formula and was genuinely surprised that it contained cow's milk!! (I know you can get special formula but still breastdeeding so not needed)
So it got me thinking, how many people choose formula without knowing what's in it? It really is clever marketing to call it 'formula'. I think MIL does view it as superior all while not really thinking about what it is.
I'm not anti formula BTW!