My twins are 10 days old. Initially my little girl wouldn't latch on, so when we came home from hospital she was on formula with expressed milk once or twice a day. I kept trying on the breast though, and we finally cracked it yesterday.
Yesterday, last night and today they have both been feeding constantly - feed for about 15 mins, fall asleep, as soon as they are put down scream with hunger and latch on again. I've had no sleep, so in desperation o gave them both some formula and they went down perfectly and slept for about an hour and a half. They woke up starving and I fed them both again, each had both sides and are both still starving.
My worry is that I'm just not making enough milk and they are always starving. Their faces are milky after they've fed and they are producing lots if wet and dirty nappies, but having seen how well they settle after formula and how they don't settle at all with breastfeeding, I just don't think they are ever filling their little tummies. I also don't hear loads of swallowing when they feed - but not sure how much I should hear. My breasts also feel soft and normal again.. I'm desperate to breast feed and I am enjoying it....but the stress and the guilt is really getting me down and I'm miserable, despite having otherwise perfect babies!
So here is my question. If I continue to breastfeed on demand but offer formula after night feeds will I ruin my chances of continuing to breastfeed by either rogering my milk supply or giving the babies nipple confusion? And are there any other things that might help? I've just given my daughter formula and she only took 10ml. Do I just need to persevere? Is it hurting my little babies to be hungry all the time and never get to sleep? They have literally been feeding, with occasional 20 min catnaps, for 36 hours now, whereas before they were getting about an hour and a half at a time.
Aaarrrggghhh at the end of my tether! Please help if you can!