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BF Help pleeease. GP has told me to top up my b/feeds with a bottle

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Wills · 07/06/2006 19:44

ds is 17 days old. We had at least 14 days of crying now. I had thought it was colic. I'm also suffering from b/f thrush so the whole thing is painful. Anyway infacol does nothing and I'm slowly getting desperate so I spoke to my pharmacist who suggested I speak to my gp. She listened to me describe what was happening i.e. from about 3 or 4.00 onwards he screams and screams. He's mouthing but I had thought this was looking for comfort. I had, for a time, put him back on the breast everytime but that didn't resolve the issue it seemed to make it worse so I started to try and make him wait. The hv suggested I make him wait at least 2 hours between the start of feeds i.e. at least 1 hour 30 minute gap so that he took a proper feed. He would take a "proper" feed and then fall asleep but the moment you move him he would start screaming again.

OK enough background. GP said that he sounded like he was hungry and that I should try topping up my bf first and if that didn't settle him then she was happy to see me because something was obviously wrong. In desperation I thought I'd try it. He finished on the breast at 5.15 and was contented and let go himself. He then happily cooed and "played" for 40 minutes before he started to cry. With a kind of Hah now we'll see I made up 4 ozs and.... he drank the lot! I'm gobsmacked. What do I do now? ds is my third and most likely my last. Despite the thrush I didn't want to give up. The pain is not good so I'm not sure how long I could keep going but I was trying. I'd even started some awful diet cutting out all sugar i.e. veg fruit carbs, the lot! I'm gutted. How the hell can I increase the milk. I had tried putting him to the breast loads but that just seemed to increase his pain. Please help.

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motherbeing · 07/06/2006 22:52

sorry for double post - trigger happy twitchy fingers

emkana · 07/06/2006 23:06

Maybe your ds would be happy to suck on dummy for a bit then sleep without it?

That's what my dd's always did - they didn't have it in all night, just sucked on it for a bit to calm down.

tiktok · 07/06/2006 23:24

I can't tell what's going on with your baby, wills, sorry, except to say you are right to want to find out more so you can both be happier....I don't think it sounds as if your GP knows much about bf, sadly, and nor does your HV. It is almost always inappropriate to make a very young baby wait for a 'proper' feed.

Need a lot more info - weight at birth, weight now, wees and poos, whether you have seen someone such as a bfc, whether you feed according to a schedule or similar, or if you time feeds, whether you feed one side or two or more, what would have happened if instead of giving the bottle at that time you gave the breast.....anything else, too!

conni · 08/06/2006 15:40

I increased milk supply throug expressing rented Ameda pump and fennel tea, but might be better to see b/f adviser

cori · 08/06/2006 15:43

Wills, Just wanted to add that despite feeling that DS 2 wasnt getting enough from the breasts (hence the frequent feeds) he has just been weighed and has put on 7 oz in the past week.

Also to stop me going round the bend, I have been giving DS 2 a bottle of either EBM or formula in the middle of the night when he wakes. It means i get an almost full nights sleep and dont feel like i can cope much better with the constant feeding during the day. Hasnt affected my supply as i express as soon as i get up if he doesnt want it.

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