I have a 2.5 week old. She is 98% percentile and was 10 days late (does she need to feed more?) and she is very hungry.
My supply struggles to keep up with her evening cluster feeding - from about 4/5pm till well it was midnight last night. During the course of yesterdays cluster, I had to use 2 bottles of formula as I honestly felt like I had no milk to give her and didnt have any expressed as she used all her feeds in the morning and I had nothing left to express. She fed almost constantly yesterday, morning and early afternoon apart from a 2 hour nap in the sling.
I know the advice is not to supplement but at the time, what on earth do you do if you have no milk and they are hungry ? You can hardly stick on a DVD and hope they forget they are hungry? Am I doing something wrong.
We have tried rocking her to sleep etc to see if its not hunger but I'm certain it's hunger as she calms immediately as she's on the boob although her sucking is not that efficient all the time.
I have also noticed that her poos are becoming more greenish/brown when they used to be yellow/orange and have read that this is a sign of too much foremilk. My left boob produces a lot of milk - this morning whilst she was asleep, I hand expressed 4OZ in 10 mins. I never use a pump, just hand express. I was soaked through 3 layers of clothes when I woke up. I fed her at 430am but from the other boob (25 mins then she crashed), so this boob had 7 hours of no action.
My plan is to feed each side for as long as possible (anyone know a good time - my MW said 20 mins +), but the flow is so strong on the left boob that she seems to fill up on foremilk and not get to the gold top. Does anyone know if the constant feeding is linked to just the foremilk. If I resolve this should I get longer between feeds ?
I have a toddler and it is so hard to manage both with constant feeding. I didnt BF my toddler (no latch ever!) so I have no quarms with formula but I really want to BF to help get my weight off and to make it easier in a few months, but I hate the feeling of not knowing if my baby is hungry and not being able to satisfy her.
I have had the latch checked my MW's and I think it is ok.
Sorry so long, just rambling. I am thinking of going to a BF cafe on Monday, but i honestly don't know how I will get out of the house and get a bus with a constantly feeding baby!