No 'cluster feeding' - does it matter?

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Ds (7 weeks) does not and has never done this cluster feeding thing. He feeds anywhere between every hour to three hours, day and night, mostly shorter feeds at night sadly. Most people seem to have babies who cluster feed in the evening then go at least 3 hours between night feeds. Does it matter that ds doesn't do this? How can i encourage him to get into this? An assured 3 hours between night feeds would be bliss...

My DD has hardly ever cluster fed and has never fed very regularly either really. I had massive oversupply at the start and wonder if this contributed to it, as she never need to 'up' my supply.

She's 5 months and has always followed her centile curve pretty much exactly, until recently where she's gone above the line slightly, and other than weight she is thriving, so it hasn't done her any harm.

My DD cluster fed but it made no difference to her (lack of) sleep

Some babies cluster feed and some don't ...

My son cluster fed once, at about 6 weeks. Never before or since. Perfectly normal.

No but I wonder if something else is going on for him to wake up every hour at night? Although its been nearly 6yrs since I had a newborn so maybe I have just forgotton what they are like!!!

Are you swaddling at night? Dummy? Nappy? I would check all those things before feeding every hour.

Ok, so i'll forget about the cluster feeding then.

girliefriend, he hates to be swaddled, takes a dummy only sporadically and i am only changing nappies for explosive poos. I've tried rocking, patting, shushing but the only thing that will settle him when he wakes is the boob. I don't know if that's ok for him to be feeding so frequently at night

It's been nearly 7 years since ds1 was a newborn, and i've forgotten everything too!

Absolutely it's ok to feed as frequently as he needs at night :)

Can you bring him into bed with you to make it easier?

It might be o.kay for the baby to feed as often as he likes at night but I imagine not for the mum!!! Maybe he is going through a spell of trying to boost your supply or something, hopefully he will settle down in the next few weeks

occ, i can't feed in bed, either lying down or sitting up. for some reason my mattress means i can never get the latch right .

girlie, yes, exactly, not great for me! i am also hoping it will settle, i don't know how long one can cope with so little sleep!