My DD is 14 months and for one thing feeding has been painful since she got her razors teeth (which was AGES ago and not the reason I'm stopping but I have had enough) but also she needs me to be there from before bedtime when she's getting tired, through bedtime to feed her and then in the house for her wake ups, one or two before my bedtime. I feed her when she wakes as they are at regular intervals, not every ten mins, two hourly or so. And this is all I have ever done with her to get her to settle, as for my DS we had a nightmare of constantly in and out to settle in the night, rocking, dummy attatchment. I was getting so little sleep that I found this simpler, although I am now looking for my escape route!! What can I do to change our routine and get her to at least drop some of these? I'm worried because she won't understand why I'm trying to change a good thing (except for my nipples and social life), I haven't needed to leave her crying at nighttime. She doesn't have a dummy.