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Breastfeeding and conifdence has been badly knocked by health visitor (sorry a bit long)

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Pinkseren · 30/09/2011 22:50

I had some problems getting breast feeding established until dd was 5 weeks old. My nipples are flat, I had mastitis, badly cracked nipples etc It is still painful to feed from one side as nipple is flatter than the other one, and I manage this with ibuprofen. I was also having to use formula on occasion when I was unable to express enough milk for a feed.

I resolved my problems by seeing a breast feeding counsellor however due to the amount of time it took me to get hold of one (dd was 4 weeks old), my supply had been affected. I resolved this by using domperidone and my supply became not dissimilar to when my milk first came in (breasts very full and leaking if I did not feed) after a few days.

My GP would not prescribe the domperidone as I was requesting it for an off licence use, so I was was buying it over the counter. To get the recommended dose for increasing lactation, I was having to use over a box worth a day. The problem I had with this was that many chemists would refuse to sell me more than a box at a time (I didn't tell them what I was using them for in case they wouldn't sell them to me at all), so this necessitated picking up a box each time I passed any chemist.

I cut down my use as I was in fear of getting mastitis again, and we seemed to be doing well with the breast feeding and not using any formula at all. We saw the health visitor on Wednesday and felt quite proud to say that breasfeeding was finally sorted. HV told me that dd was not putting on enough weight (had put on 3oz in two weeks) and maybe I should consider going back to the combintion feeding I had been doing.

I have not enjoyed breasfeeding at all, but have persisted with it because of the benefits to my daughter. The HV is also aware of the financial cost of using the domperidone (at a cost of over £5 a day beacause I couldn't get it prescribed-much more expensive than formula) as well of the aggro of touring pharmacies to get enough, this is not something you would do for the fun of it. I am now paranoid about feeding my daughter as she seemed satisfied after breasfeeding and feel bad that I have not been doing enough for her. I'm loathed to use formula again, but have been today because the last thing I want to do is deprive her of food. Any advice greatfully received. Thank you.

OP posts:
MollyTheMole · 03/10/2011 09:26

Leonie its really irresponsible to recommend someone buys meds online Angry

ArthurPewty · 03/10/2011 09:37

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ChunkyPickle · 03/10/2011 09:51

I would caution against buying pills online - except from a recognised pharmacy because you just don't know anything about whether they are counterfeit, the hygiene of the place that made them, whether they are out of date etc.

But anyway - I have nothing to say except that if you've got to 8 weeks, and she's alert and happy, it really does get better from now. The baby gets more experienced, you get more experienced, and as they get bigger and stiffer if becomes much easier (I still remember the first day we managed to feed lying down, and I could finally have both hands free - he was just a bit older than yours is now and it was a total revelation)

Well done and good luck

MollyTheMole · 03/10/2011 09:52

You really need it explaining?

OPs doc wont prescribe it for a reason and that website sells some drugs that you can only get from a doctor so Id question its ethics. Not to mention the press cooverage recently about websites selling 'fake' drugs.

And you are suggesting to a bfeeding mother to do this. Nice, really nice.

MollyTheMole · 03/10/2011 09:56

Ive reported your post Leonie, Im usually very much a 'freedom of speech' person but any lurkers reading your post might believe its good advice and its not its extremely dangerous

ArthurPewty · 03/10/2011 10:02

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MollyTheMole · 03/10/2011 10:15

"MollytheMole: i wouldnt suggest anyone do anything i havent"

Oh well, thats a relief then. I once took 4 paracetamol and 120mg of codiene in one go because I forgot I had already taken them, sooooo I'll just go around recommending people take double the dose because, hey, I was fine Hmm

The fact remains its irresponsible to recommend anyone (let alone a bfeeding mother FFS) goes to an unscrupulous website to buy meds

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