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Is this cluster feeding?

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GreenCar · 15/04/2011 03:22

Or a growth spurt? Or something else? And more importantly, is this normal?

DS is 10 days old. until a couple of days ago he was eating regularly and suckling well at each feed (at some feeds he was doing almost constant deep sucks and swallowing and at other feeds he was pausing a lot between swallowing) and I felt confident I knew when he had finished and could settle him down easily. He was sleeping well between feeds.

For the last couple of days, he has started doing "feeds" where he spends most his time shallow sucking or just holding my nipple in his mouth and barely doing any swallowing (even when I do breast compressions and keep swappIng breasts). Sometimes he is wide awake with eyes open when he does this. These "feeds" are at times when I would expect him to be hungry and eating properly. They can last an hour and a half and I really can't tell most of the time when he's done (he either falls asleep with nipple on mouth or spits it out and sleeps but when I put him down to sleep, he starts stirring and rooting so I put him back on breast).

I read about cluster feeding and they all say it's early evening but DS has behaved like this at a morning feed, a 2am feed and a 4am feed (not all on same day).

Otherwise he has lots of wet and dirty nappies and gaining weight. Latch fine and no nipple pain.

Does anyone have any ideas?? Thank you!

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aloiseb · 16/04/2011 00:50

Well done for staying awake long enough to write!

I can remember dd was so irregular with her feeds that I ended up writing them down...they sounded a lot like your DS's. I'm sure it is normal. I never heard of cluster feeding but it is normal for tiny babies not to understand clocks at all. The great thing they used to talk about back then (15 years ago!) was growth spurts.

My comfort was baby books...you have to pick and choose a bit. Penelope Leach was great and so was Libby Purves. Gives you something to do, looking at how to look after 5 year olds.

I think one advantage of this topsyturviness is it prepares you for sharing some pretty wacky children's TV......how else are you going to watch Teletubbies and the like unless you are practically hallucinating? Wink

Seriously, it sounds like you are doing what DS wants and that's got to be great for you both. You can always assert what you want - maybe something a bit more routine - when he is a bit older and seems to be finding a pattern again (this is where writing it down comes in)

PenguinArmy · 16/04/2011 03:34

Cluster feeding can be random

also there is often a growth spurt around this time (plus another one at 3 weeks, then 6 weeks)

OTOH babies just like to be close to their lovely mothers :)

pettyprudence · 16/04/2011 19:00

my bf counsellor said my LO was "snacking" when he did this and made me wait until 2 hours was up since his last feed to make sure he was properly hungry and fill him up with a proper "dinner" - this got him back in to a cycle of feeding roughly every 2 hours when he was 10-14 days old (we are now on day 17) and feeding is going better. I only had to make him wait the once in order to get him back on track. Sometimes he will feed 1 1/2 hrs after his last feed, sometimes 2 1/2hrs. Dreading the 3 week growth spurt and more feeding!

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