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What would YOU have liked to know about breast-feeding before DC?

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bellygazing · 14/04/2011 12:06

Been thinking a lot about breastfeeding and how sad it is that people get discouraged/give up for any number of reasons. How do you think it would be better to promote/give information about BF?

I am in no way criticising people who choose/ end up having to FF, and freely admit to having no experience of it, but I think a lot of people give up because they don't get the support they need, have unrealistic expectations, have problems such as thrush, blocked ducts, mastitis, tongue-tie etc that they never dreamed existed.

For me, BF has been a really positive experience but even with no particular problems, I wasn't expecting it to be so physically difficult to get the baby to latch, that it would sometimes hurt quite a lot (even if latch was good), or that you would do it SOO frequently, and for such a long time.

I think if more information was given that actually, it can be difficult and painful to begin with but there are a lot of benefits later on, that would really help a lot of people. I think most people are aware of the health benefits to baby and mother (antibodies, lowering cancer risk etc) but good things that I think should be promoted include:

*once you get the hang of it, you can do it anywhere - it is really convenient and requires NO equipment at all - and unlike a bottle, you can't accidentally drop a boob on the floor and make it unsterile.
*it's free
*you can't 'run out' while out and about
*no sterilising
*(personal experience here) you can eat masses and the weight just mysteriously vanishes - I weigh less than pre-pregnancy
*if the baby wakes crying for food, you can feed her immediately without having to make up a bottle while LO cries
*(possibly the biggest amazement for me) if you BF a baby in the night, the lovely BF hormones mean you drop right off back to sleep - and it tends to have a soporific effect on baby too
*if baby is in pain, upset, teething, has banged head, ill, etc you have an instant source of comfort

Plus it's really lovely Smile

What does anyone else think?

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libertychick · 14/04/2011 22:08

agree with lots above

also add that better info is needed on positioning - i developed tendonitis in my thumb from having hand over-extended supporting DD's head and quit at 10 weeks (not only reason but significant). Waiting for physio at moment but GP thinks I will need steroid injection to resolve. Having huge problems with pain and my grip which makes lifting DD v difficult at times - I have almost dropped her a couple of times Blush GP says she has seen several women with same problem from BF.

CherryPie3 · 15/04/2011 07:55

stroppereslla I didn't know that!! I was recommended to have the mirena when ds2 was 6wks old. Makes me glad I forgot the appointment now (and never re-made it!!)

ensure · 15/04/2011 08:11

If I'd known the following about BFing I'd have had a baby years ago: Feeding last thing at night gets me off to sleep (I am a chronic insomniac).

bikerunski I had the pushing back up thing too! Awful wasn't it!?

Stropperella · 15/04/2011 10:22

CherryPie3 - lucky escape! I had BF'd my dd with absolutely no probs and had couldn't understand why I was having such a hard time with ds. I ended up mix feeding him, which I was not happy with, but there was no other option. Also, I'm sad to say, got incredibly crap advice from NCT and LLL. But this was all because noone (at least noone I spoke to in either of these organisations back then) knew that the Mirena has an effect on milk supply. Is contraindicated for use by BF mothers in the USA (so why is it OK here in the UK???), but I didn't know that at the time. I only realised why I had had problems after researching it a couple of years later. Fat lot of use then, of course. Bloody drug companies. I try not to think about the fact that DS prob ended up with a goodly dose of synthetic hormone as well, which I was assured at the time would not be the case. I BF for 2 years, but really doubt that it did him the same amount of good that it did when I did the same with dd sans Mirena.

Weemee · 15/04/2011 20:19

It will mean you are attached to your couch for the first while.

Your baby may never take a bottle and hence you will be by her side until you stop

It is the loveliest thing in the world

Your nipples will hurt at the start

You will probably need additional support to get technique right (and here is where to get it.....)

It will take a while to settle into some semblance of routine

Some days your breasts will feel like and look like Zeppelins (has its pros and cons Wink

You will eat your own body weight in chocolate (every day Wink)

That all the positives far far far outweigh the cons Grin

Scaredycat3000 · 15/04/2011 22:30

I was very lucky and had an easy time of BF. My one regreat is realising to late that I could have worn underwired bras. I developed a bad rash under my boobs from the piss poor support in my 34HH nursing. That might sound minor but I bf for 20months and was in pain daily for over a year befor reading in several places that if your bra fits correctly it will be fine and you can convert them to nursing bras with the clips the useless nursing bras.
Plus I hated the mono boob look.

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