Extended bfing and pregnancy, help!

[MamaMaiasaura]

My 3 yr old ds is still bfing morning and bedtime and I'm nearly 10 weeks pregnant. I've notices I'm making very little if any milk and it's fairly uncomfortable as I think he's dry nursing. I'm happy to tandem and continue as we are. Equally if ds stopped that's ok too but I wouldn't want to instigate this as I prefer child led weaning. Anyway, has anyone else gone through this and what happened? We are also co sleeping and whilst he has his own room and bed and it's a nice place he prefers to sleep in with me. Again I am ok for this to continue but wonder how on earth it works with a little one as well. My eldest ds is 11 so quite a big age gap and never had these issues.

Also re bfing, would love a good sling. I have very large bust (36J) and never managed to find suitable one for ds2.

Sorry for typos. Silly iPhone

Congratulations on the PG. Sorry though, have no experience of tandem feeding or co-sleeping with 2. With regards to the sling though, could you get along to your local Slingmeet? That's if there is one near you.

I can't tell you what will happen with your older nurseling as every nursing relationship is very different. But I am sure if problems occur, there are several tandem nursers on here who will help.

I have nursed through two pregnancies and happily tandem nursing for the last couple of years. It can be a bit much, making me feel too touched out at times but the benefits way out weigh the negatives atm. ;)

Cosleeping the things you must do for safety sake. Never leave older child in bed with baby on their own. Always place yourself between the baby and older child.